Orgasm for swaying blue question

Hi Everyone,
I've been reading these boards for almost two years now, but we have just now been trying to conceive a boy for the last two months (we have a 22-month old daughter). Last month we only dtd the night after I got a peak OPK that morning, so this month we have been dtd every other day since after AF ended, and ever day for the past three days. I got a peak OPK yesterday morning, and I've been taking supplements and have been on the HE diet, but for some reason last night I couldn't O. I have every other time we've dtd, but I'm worried now that since I messed that part up it messed the whole sway up. We are going to dtd tonight and tomorrow night too, so hopefully I can then, but in your experiences how important is O? DH has also been taking supplements, had coffee an hour beforehand, and a cold shower. Thanks for any insight!

There is plenty of moms on this site that didn't O and conceived a boy. I wouldn't worry about it too much.

It's not important at all and it looks like a FANTASTIC attempt.

FX for a boy for you! Keep us posted, so we all know how it went. we are also praying for our boy, not swaying any longer as I got PG last month YEPPEEE . baby dust!

Sounds like a great attempt and sounds like you found the Martha in you!!! Good for blue!

Thank you so much for all of the encouragement, ladies! I got a bfn this past cycle and wrote another post under the title of "Discouraged and Frustrated." I got some great feedback from atomic, and I'd love to hear yours if you have any, as well. Thanks again and good luck to you all!