Jumping the gun ..

But I just bought the swaddlers that I desperately want to wrap a little girl in, assuming I can even get DH on board with having our third child. It's these, in case anyone was wondering: for the birds classic swaddles | aden + anais USA

I just started true swaying - dieting now and getting my body limber for starting exercise in six weeks. Hopefully DH will be on my side and see that I want this more than I've ever wanted anything by October, which is when I'm hoping to TTC. He's remained really stubbornly against a third child, and it's been heartbreaking.

But, I bought the swaddlers anyway, because they're (supposedly) discontinuing the style. If we do get to have a third child and it's a girl, she'll be wrapped up in them, and if it's a boy, I'll sell them on Diaper Swappers :) . Has anyone else bought some of their "dream" items before even having a BFP?

I hope you are able to get you dh on board and have both of you happy with the decision.

Yes, I have purchased several gorgeous items for the baby boy my dh and I will eventually have :D Of course, dh knows nothing about it :D

Cute :). I have a few things stashed away. I had more but sometimes I get the urge to give it away because it drives me mad that I haven't got to use it. Though I was really strong today. I had to go into the baby store to buy something for my new nephew and there where a couple of little dresses that I found. One had a little matching cardigan and I wanted them so bad but I didn't buy them. Usually I avoid girls stuff like the plague.

Covered in blue, hopefully we will all be successful getting our DG's.

yes I did... Simply too sweet not to buy... And i even think of what to name her, how to throw her full month party, what to wear for her on her newborn photography etc...!