And this is why I don't want anyone to know we are TTC.
My husband just told me his sister left him a message this morning telling him she dreamt last night that he was holding a baby girl and it was his!!
I already feel the pressure building up from this! I would hate to disappoint everyone with another boy:(
With ds3 I could since less excitement with many of my family members. It is so disheartening. I wish I could just TTC and not worrying about it being a boy or girl. Of course I want a daughter but maybe it wouldn't be so hard if I didn't get these weird vibes from my family.
September was my first month TTC. I am in my 2ww now. That dream did come at a rather odd time. I reminded my DH to keep quit about trying for another.
This is also the reason why I will hold off on a pregnancy announcement for as long as I can! And I am going to lie about not finding out the gender!!
Just venting.....
Thanks
And this is why I don't want anyone to know we are TTC.
I won't be telling anybody I am pregnant until I absolutely have to next time around. Where I live it's very uncommon to have more than 2 kids, and the comments about "larger" families (comments from asshole PP moms) are just so insensitive and really way out of line. Nobody should have an opinion on anybody's family dynamics. It's not their business! And I don't feel like we should have to justify our desire for more kids to anybody.
When I was pregnant with DS2 people generally responded negatively towards it. I didn't get any exciting congrats or well wishes. Just empty "can't control that" comments that really hurt. It only made my GD worse.
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