Ive lost my baby girl.

Hey

Its been ages since I've been on here but today we got some terrible news and I thought id update you all….

THings have been going really well wit the pregnancy. I had my 20 week scan and things were great and it was confirmed (after our previous non diagnostic gender scan) that we were indeed having our much desired/dreamed for daughter that we swayed for and a bonus little man. They were both happy and healthy and doing well.

But today that changed. We went in for a scan today and were told that our little girl has died. I am heartbroken and lost for words. Ive had no pain, no bleeding, no nothing…..just was a little concerned about lack of movement from them both, but was not expecting this.

After swaying, an early m/c, swaying again, finding out we were having twins and that one was a girl to now this…. its just all been such an ordeal and now I have to go through the rest of the pregnancy not knowing what the impact on the surviving twin will be, having to deliver both of them, then we have to go through everything afterwards.

This is all just not fair! Its like some cruel cruel joke.

Im just so devastated. :(

Sam

Hi, I had wondered how you were doing and am so sad to hear this for you and have no words to say except that I am so so sorry xo

oh i am so very sorry, that is such sad news. i hope you have lots of people giving you support at home. i hope your little boy is ok x

I am so incredibly sorry for you Sam. Life is just not fair sometimes and after all your struggles I can't imagine what you are going through. Big hugs.

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I am so so so very sorry MumofSix :sadflwr:

Wishing you all the strength you need :(

I am so sorry to read this:( Prayers for you and your family xxxxxx

Sending love and prayers to you all at this awful time - can't even start to imagine what you are going through. xx

love and prayers. xxxxxxx

I'm so sorry to hear this! Brought a tear to my eye thinking about how heartbroken you must be feeling! I can't imagine hearing that news and hope you have very strong family relationship to help you through this! Really hope your other baby is ok. Sending hugs x

I am so very sorry to hear this. So unbelievably unfair 😥