Warning--TMI! Question about BD positions

So DH and I experimented last night trying for deep penetration. We tried rear entry and then with my legs over his shoulders to see which was deeper. He said they both felt the same and he was able to hit the cervix with both (not very comfortable, btw!). Now, my thought is, wouldn't the legs over the shoulders be a better position, because then I can just lay there with my hips propped afterwards? The rear entry seems like it might cause sperm to leak out while I flip over... plus, the last baby I conceived in that position was a girl!

Thoughts?

Doggy style - lets more air in which can cause sperm to leak out and can also decrease the chances of pregnancy. Also not a good position in the first few months of pregnancy because the air can cause m/s.

Legs up (over his shoulders or close to his armpits) - Is great for keeping everything in and laying there waiting. Putting your legs up close to his armpits might be a little more comfortable for you so you can have the big O!

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Originally Posted by purplepoet20

Legs up (over his shoulders or close to his armpits) - Is great for keeping everything in and laying there waiting. Putting your legs up close to his armpits might be a little more comfortable for you so you can have the big O!

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ITA with this; it will definitely help you keep more swimmers in if you're already on your back!

Yeah, I would go legs up over his shoulders or something similar. That's what we went with because I was worried I would leak too much with doggy.

Glad everyone agrees! Legs over the shoulders it is. Thanks for the opinions, ladies!

wait so no doggie style then??? i guess you are in the same 90degree position with hips in the legs over shoulder thing... same as doggie position

I think it pretty much is the same position. As long as it's deep, I say it works. Plus, you can actually do this position a bit propped in the first place, and just prop some more after if you need.

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Originally Posted by Hobbermittens

So DH and I experimented last night trying for deep penetration. We tried rear entry and then with my legs over his shoulders to see which was deeper. He said they both felt the same and he was able to hit the cervix with both (not very comfortable, btw!). Now, my thought is, wouldn't the legs over the shoulders be a better position, because then I can just lay there with my hips propped afterwards? The rear entry seems like it might cause sperm to leak out while I flip over... plus, the last baby I conceived in that position was a girl!

Thoughts?

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Yes, that's fine and I totally agree that it's MUCH easier to lie still afterwards in that position than it is with doggy style!!

Hobbs, this is SUPER tmi, but last night when we dtd, we did it with my legs up over his shoulders, it was as deep as it gets. Then, I literally latched my legs around his neck and while he, um, stayed put, he lifted me up and put a couple of pillows under. I was like WE ARE BD MASTERS! LOL Not really, but I did feel like it was pretty clever.

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Originally Posted by LolaInLove

Hobbs, this is SUPER tmi, but last night when we dtd, we did it with my legs up over his shoulders, it was as deep as it gets. Then, I literally latched my legs around his neck and while he, um, stayed put, he lifted me up and put a couple of pillows under. I was like WE ARE BD MASTERS! LOL Not really, but I did feel like it was pretty clever.

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Lol Lola, very clear mental image :D It does sound like a nifty little move!