Loss

I had an ultrasound today after some cramping and bleeding. The baby is only measuring 7weeks 3 days and I am 10 weeks 3 days. There is no heart beat. 💔I am pretty shattered right now and waiting for this Cytotec to kick in is painful. I really hope it works tho so I can avoid a D&C. I have to go back to the ward tomorrow am and see how things have progressed.
I am completely exhausted and just emotionally drained. I received the results of my MaterniT21 screening- they say all was normal and that this baby was a female. I have a hard time believing it tho- with the condition of the baby I doubt there was any fetal DNA present in my blood. Makes me distrust the quality of their lab. I notified them by email about my miscarriage and I wonder what explanation they will give, not like it matters. The baby is no more.

I'm so incredibly sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Thanks bluebonnet.

Oh I'm so sorry to hear that. It's just heartbreaking :(. Big hugs xx

So sorry for your loss hun

Being in that hospital, hearing this news was devastating although in retrospect I feel like I instinctively knew this wasn't a viable pregnancy. I just had a feeling something was off and I guess I was right.

I couldn't wait to get home and squeeze my boys. My oldest (he is 3) threw his arms around me when I walked in the door and said "I missed you so much mommy". That may be all the therapy I need:)

Can anybody answer this question- I was 10+3 weeks pregnant and baby was measuring 7+2weeks. Does that mean the baby died at 7+2 weeks?

Possibly. Though when something isn't right they can grow really slow or even shrink while there is still a heart beat. (Happened to Oldmama on here).
I'm glad your boys are being good to you. Thinking of you!

I am so sorry 2boys, it's a gut-wrenching feeling. In my case the baby grew slower than normal, but did have a hb at the first sono, no hb a week later. I should have been 8 weeks, baby was at 6 weeks. It's an awful thing to deal with around the holidays.

I took the cytotec orally, after 48 hours nothing happened and I went ahead with a dnc. I just needed it over with. That was a little over a week ago.

Again so sorry for your loss.

I'm so sorry.Healing thoughts coming your way.