Extreme gender desire - calling all Indians, Asians... and others too
Back ground - I come from a culture of preference for boys.Also all of our generation have only two kids. Going for a boy after two girls is RARE and is look down upon.
I have two girls and really wanted/want a boy, mostly because I always wanted both genders. I want to experience being mother of a son too. I had extreme gender disappointment with my second daughter and at this point my husband is onboard with HT and third kid.
I am confused because life is already hard with two and having a third means extra ...... everything. I am looking for honest opinion on what would you do in my situation?
I am coming in terms with having two daughters and letting go my dream of a boy but at the same time there will be always that hole in my heart. I feel like may be my family is complete with two girls....but then I seen other's having boys and I feel very sad. What should I do? What would you do in my position?