which way would it sway? he started drinking 2 or more a day for the past month and doesnt plan on quiting anytime soon, so wonder if it sways boy then I will need to work harder on my girl sway on my end, since dh isnt swaying he thinks "it dumb and ridiculous and doesnt have anything to do with what you do or eat or drink its what God gives you", so he off board on swaying :(