Tentatively waving hello 😶
Hello all, I'm new here but not quite sure why or if I should here really as dh isn't really keen on having another baby 😳 however, we have two boys already and I would love to have a girl. I'm having my coil out and we were supposed to be taking precautions in the week leading up to its removal but he hasn't despite me reminding him after the first time we dtd in this period! He wants me to go on the POP when the coil is out but I don't want to use anything (for obvious reasons) but o have agreed to give it a go but he's not really pushing the issue at the moment so I may not do anything as he's being a bit lax about it. So, long story short, there's potential for an unplanned pg to happen! At the moment, I'm physically at my fittest ive ever been, weight training, running, high protein diet, but from reading on here, this is all very much a blue sway lifestyle. I'm really reluctant to give up my weight training as I've come so far but if we do have another pg, I would like to optimise our chances of a pink. At the same time, giving up my weights (Id have to swap to the 60mins cardio 6x week with at least some body weight exercises for my own sanity) and the dietary overhaul would feel like I'm throwing myself entirely into ttc and a sway for technically an "unplanned" pg, which may or may not work which ultimately would feel disappointing for the fact of putting all that effort in and sacrifice?! Sorry, I'm rambling. Head is a little everywhere at the mo x
