Sway-wise, is a chemical considered a loss?
In other words, does TTC after a chemical sway pink, just like a later loss would? This cycle I had what I can only assume was a chemical pregnancy (loss before 5 weeks) as I had full-blown preg symptoms and 2 days of faint BFPs (second day fainter than the first) followed by 2 days of BFNs, dissipation of preg symptoms and now a late AF and temps taking a sharp nose-dive. So, I am wondering if my clock, so to speak, has been reset (on the aspect that getting preg after a loss sways pink) or not. Does anybody happen to know by chance?
Honestly, while I'd LOVE a girl I am starting to feel that, after 2 consecutive losses, a sticky bean is more important. But I'd still like to know. I have been debating whether I want to continue to sway or just leave it to God and be happy with whatever we get (we would be even if we swayed). The only thing holding me back is knowing it'd break my heart to have a boy and know that the only girl we ever had we didn't get to keep. Having a boy wouldn't upset me in and of itself though. If we decided to not sway we'd still have a few things in our favor (clomid, zantac, issues with absorption of nutrients, etc.) and we'd still prob do one attempt at least one more cycle since I DID get preg this cycle, just didn't STAY that way for very long. So, if a chem does sway the same as a later loss, then we'd also have that on our side if we decided not to do an official sway. I just don't know what I want to do yet. But if someone happens to know the answer to my question it'd be very much appreciated.
TIA!
