Email quote from my ob - no hope for us over 40 apparently! :(
She replied to some questions with this email message,
"Our recommendation to all women, whether they have had miscarriages or not, is to take 500mcg of folic acid per day. Folic acid ONLY decreases the risk of your baby having Spina bifida. It does NOT decrease your risk of miscarriage. Women can write anything they want on the Internet, so you will read a lot of things that aren't really correct. There is NO evidence that Coq10 decreases miscarriage. In Australia, we do not recommend the use of baby aspirin or progesterone. Professor Wallace from Monash Healthis a world authority, and he believes these will not help. Your only increased risk of miscarriage is your age. At your age, your pregnancy has a higher chance of being a miscarriage than it has of giving you a baby. At your age, if you do carry a baby, that baby has a greater than 1 in 10 chance of having Downs Syndrome. I am pleased you want to be as healthy as possible, but you are not able to change the one thing that really gives you a high risk of miscarriage, and a high risk of a baby with abnormalities. That one thing is YOUR AGE."
I have just turned 44 years old. I had a healthy baby 2 months shy of turning 41. Is it just me or does this obstetrician sound negative toward women in their 40s having babies? After reading that message I really feel like she has scared me out of trying again. Maybe I should just give up on the last girl sway I was planning for January? I was feeling quite positive but now I feel quite defeated. :(