Is it just me ?

Does anyone else struggle to actually see themselves with a daughter?
Although this is my dream and I have actually always imagined having a girl to recipitate the relationship I have with my mum but I just can't imagine carrying a girl / having a girl as I have two boys and just see myself now as a boy mum?

I don't know if anyone who has a girl after boys can chime In and say whether they felt the same?
I think if I was to hear girl at our 20 week scan I would still feel like it's not real?!
Sorry for rabbiting on just been on my mind xxx


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No it's definitely not just you. I feel like if I'm told at our gender scan that this baby is a girl I don't think I will believe it. But at the same time I don't know if I can imagine a third boy. Maybe I just can't imagine having three children period.

Same as hopper ! Three kids .... Scary! Xxx


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You're not alone. My DH and I cannot imagine having a daughter. My DH has always wanted one, but now after having our third boy it's hard for him to imagine ever having a daughter! He said if we went for a 4th he would almost hope for another boy! I've never imagined having a daughter, but I also always thought we would have mixed genders in our family.

Time will tell! So far having 3 kids isn't too bad...I'm only 11 days into it though [emoji23]!


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Haha ! Maybe ill ask u again in 6 months ?!! [emoji6]

How awful is this but I just found out my SIL is having her second girl !!
I so thought she was going to have a boy and everything would be perfect & shoved it my face how lovely to have one of each bla bla but no!! She has two of the same and I know how much her husband really wanted a boy coz he's really into rugby and he kept going on about it ...
Sorry to ramble on but this is the only place I can !!
Gosh I'm so bitter some times !! Xxx


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ME!! I Have always pictured myself with all boys! But with this pregnancy I have the strongest gut feeling I'm carrying a girl but then I snap out of it and tell myself there is just no way! It is driving be bonkers to know what this baby is!!!!!

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ME!! I Have always pictured myself with all boys! But with this pregnancy I have the strongest gut feeling I'm carrying a girl but then I snap out of it and tell myself there is just no way! It is driving be bonkers to know what this baby is!!!!!

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I would be the same!! ^^^

It drives u insane until the gender scan doesn it!! I really hope you have a girl in there !

Also babygirlrequest I hear a lot of people say that about going from 3-4 isn't too bad - apparently it's worse going from 1-2 the adjustment of actually having another child there xxx


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I would LOVE a girl but totally the same! I have a boys name picked already with a big old list of back-ups and no girl names!! I just know I'm carrying another boy!! DH dreamed we had 3 boys which prompted me to test! Xx


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I've definitely found it! You definitely mellow out with each kid that arrives, after two it doesn't make a big difference I think! More noise but also lots more fun.