Please someone help...sorry for so many posts. Driving myself nuts

We went in for our 20 weeks and didn't find out gender but had the tech put the shots in an envelope so I could look later since my hubby didn't want to know. I couldn't make out anything from the shots and no one on here can either. Bummer. I had an appt yesterday and took the shot with me to ask the tech what I was looking at and she showed me and said girl but was very squished as she was sitting on her legs so these are pics from back side. I said that's confusing where are the legs she dad no legs just the inside. She said there isn't always three lines and that there are not any boy parts so was positive it was a girl. I circled and put an arrow to the area she said showed girl. Does anyone else see it?? I am in complete shock and was positive this was going to be my boy. I think I'm
Going to go for an elective 3D to find out forsure. Any responses greatly appreciated!!

Well maybe you should get a second opinion. I will tell you, all of my boys were very obvious they were boys between 13-14w. I mean clear scrotum and penis. There was no guessing. At 16-22 weeks, their penis and scrotum could not be hidden anywhere and certainly did not look like any of your pics.

I hope you have a boy, but I think you should be prepared to hear pink.


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I agree with you just wanted to see if others saw what she talking about. Since she did point it out to me I should just except it. Thanks for the post!

I can't really make out what is going on in the pic but if the tech was confidant of girl, that is likely what baby is. I agree with XXforhubby - both my boys were also very obvious by 13 weeks and there was no hiding the penis and scrotum at any of the later scans. Good luck to you! Do you already have 1 or more girls?

Yes I have two girls. I was hoping maybe maybe parts were hiding my since baby had legs crossed and was squished. I will be happy either way ofcourse just a but disappointed. Thanks for the post!

Don't worry, I totally understand! I was the opposite of you at my ultrasounds. I kept wishing I *wouldn't* see those parts!!

I can't really tell in that pic what I'm looking at and think it's a horrible view to determine gender from. I'd get another opinion because the confusion over the images would drive me batty. Like others have said, my boys were very obvious early as well. I always have a scan in the mid 11-week range and my boys have already had the "party hat" looking cone nub angled nearly straight up. Not the slightest hint of ambiguity and clearly a penis.

I am def getting an elective. Should I wait a few weeks or just go for it? I don't know if I can wait any longer but want to know what others think. TIA!!

You're far enough along that you could go in at any time really. No need to wait.

I got a 60% girl guess at my 20 week scan - baby was sooooo wriggly! - and 3 days later had it confirmed at a private scan. I couldn't wait!

Three beautiful boys and my longed-for DD due in June 2016!