Stressing myself out while trying to sway for a girl!

Randomly last weekend my DH revealed to me that he would like to try for a girl... this revelation was very unexpected since he is booked in for a vasectomy for August! Our current family consists of a DS of mine from a previous relationship and a DS together but I secretly dreamed of having a girl. Since discussing and deciding to try for a girl I have started planning everything I can for my sway: Purchased
* Vitamins:
Licorice root (DH)
Calcium
Magnesium
Cranberry
Acidophilus (but I have just seen that this sways BOY - help conflicted on this one)
Folic acid
Vitamin C
* BBT
* OPK
* Saliva ferning kit
* RePHresh
* Sylk
* Sudufed
* 100mg Aspirin
* Charms - amethyst, rose quartz and hematite for under pillow
* Oil diffuser - Lavender oil
* Salt lamp in bedroom
* Lavender soap
* Using nail polish - fingers and toes
* Gender sway girl spell
* Rose quartz gemstone bracelet
* Negative ion necklace
* Ph testing kit
* Douching kit
* Charting using: Fathers age, Mothers age, Chinese conceiving, Moon calendars (new moon), Female horoscope signs

Diet:
Broccoli
Green Beans
Fat free yogurt
Cucumber - no skin
Apples - no skin
Chicken
No red meat, olives, bacon, chocolate, potatoes, bread, pastry, processed meats, caffeine

Conceiving attempt to be 6th of May:
*All charts point girl for this month
* ovulation charted to be on the 9th of May so 6th is 3 days before and even number (old wives tale)/New moon is on the 7th though :-(
* After Abstaining 7+ days before
* DH to have hot shower before hand
* Missionary position with shallow ejaculation
* Jump and dump after 5 minutes

If there is anything else I am missing and should be doing PLEASE fill me in!
I also feel guilty for wanting this so bad but can not even put into words how much I want this.

hi Renee
I can see a few things you could possibly let go of, based on all the reading and postings/threads ive done myself. An expert/dream vet etc will be around soon to help you out so please dont stress at all - you will get all the guidance you need for your sway!

Good luck and super that your DH is fully on board. :)

Ok this is long and my children are rioting, can you please bump this for me for tomorrow??

I will say real quick that probiotics were the only supplement that ever got worse than 50-50 and we now use exclusively for boys. I think it's NUTS the other site has not adopted this recommendation, but I digress. Also, Sudafed is NOT safe for you to take, drop that

Atomic you asked me to bump :-)

Much of this I cannot comment on until I do your plan because they aren't always right for everyone.

As i already mentioned, no acidophilus, I'd not give either of you vit. C, would not give you Sudafed, no one should use BOTH aspirin and cranberry

You can't do RepHresh and douching together. You can mix Sylk with either. What you can do is start off with a douche and then go to RepHResh, but honestly I hardly ever recommend douche and RepH. has gotten mediocre results.

Ions at your discretion, you have that covered! :)

I would prefer LE Diet instead of mineral balancing diet and you can read more about that here http://genderdreaming.com/forum/tryi...l-version.html It is very hard to include chicken much in the LE Diet, because you quickly exceed the protein limits and have barely eaten any calories at all. Then what do you eat the rest of the day, because many foods (like yogurt) have protein. It ends up being this starvation diet of chicken and cucumbers and gummy worms and that is not a safe pre-pregnancy diet.

I am also highly concerned about the lack of fat in your diet. You need minimum 30 g of fat a day to continue ovulating and that has been too low for many people. You will need to get some fat from somewhere.

Caffeine has been 10000% debunked as a blue sway. You do NOT need to avoid caffeine and in fact coffee 3 or more cups a day has been a very excellent sway tactic for us and I think it's a step in the wrong direction.

If you are Oing on May9 and the new moon was on the 7th, that is STILL very close to a new moon. If the moon sways it is because of the amount of light it gives off and NOT ions so that is stil all good.

I do not recommend shallow ejaculation with all that other stuff. You aren't going to get pregnant doing all that stuff and shallow has never been proven to do anything at all to help a pink sway.

Did I hit everything???

Thanks Atomic - I think will just wait for the plan to come and start then, should have came here before other websites :-)