1moregirl,
Well I hope those dumb dr have a bit of tact and dont disourage you from ttc. So please take what they say with a grain of salt.
Honestly, no matter what there is really not much you can do other than ttc, hope and pray. I got so wound up during my hi tech cycles listening to the dr gloomy stats....it wasnt until i just said "F--k it!" That i just let go and started to enjoy myself. Whatever will be will be. In a way it is liberating.
As for swaying, the biggest girl sway factor is you and DH age...this is probably due to lowering of estrogen levels so take heart...when you *do* finally catch that golden eggy it is most likely to be a girl :curtsey:
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog...have-daughters