Still not getting pregnant...

So I have been swaying for a while now for a boy, Our first attempt was in June, then we tried again in August and again in October. Whenever my husband and I wanted to have a baby its always been one try and it happened. Im starting to think maybe I am at the age where it maybe it's to late for me or just harder for me, I just turned 35 in October. We are going to try again in November and December and then maybe give it a break. Its so heart breaking when AF shows up or my temp drops. At first I thought maybe it was because I was using baking soda, but this was our first try without it and still nothing. Does anyone have any suggestions on what I could do to up my chances? I noticed that I get egg white CM before my Ovulation strip turns + it usually goes away about the day before I get a + but we usually dont bd until 10 to 11 hours later, should we be bding before I get a positive? I do remeber with my 3 year we bd as soon as I started seeing egg white cm, but she did turn out to be a girl, but I was also not on the He diet or taking supplements. So this is what I am taking, One A Day multivitamins, fish oil, folic acid, wheat grass and just begin taking Ubiquinol Coq10, is there anything else I should be doing to help me get pregnant without not messing with my boy sway? I am just really in shock that I am not pregnant yet, also should I start BDing when I first start seeing the egg white cm, been temping and using ovulation strips. Someone help please..

Have you tried the SMEP way?

Also baking soda kills the sperm and this could sway pink!


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Whats smep?

Just looked it up, this is what I will start doing.

Hi DesiG,
I think you are probably ovulating earlier than you think. I would bd as soon as you see cm, aim for 3 bd in fertile period if you can (not in 1 day) & add vit d3.
Good luck!

Ok great , cheer up , the longer you have been on diet the better results you get !


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I would drop the baking soda, just keep on the HE diet and keep trying, it can take longer than you think, for me it was 10 months, goodluck

Yes I think you might be right, I think I will start bding every 2 days.

Add vitamin D , check how much you have in a one day , up it to 1000 iu

Also try to get more sun exposure in the morning [emoji4]

Have you tried royal jelly and bee pollen?

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That's very little CM. How much water do you drink daily? I would suggest you take guaifenesin (robitussin) 5-7 days before expected ovulation and be sure you are drinking half of your body weight in ounces of water (if you weigh 150Lbs, you'd drink 75oz)

Also, it seems like you don't BD often enough. I do believe that for boy it is recommended to BD every 2-3 days plus 3 consecutive attempts in the fertile window (morning, night and next morning).