First timer here, PLEASE help me!! Swaying GIRL! :)

Hi ladies! I am 35 years old and planning to try for our 3rd baby this month! We have two DD's, 4 and 6 years old (20 months apart). Because there would be quite a spread between them and the 3rd, we have been on the fence about trying again. We are swaying girl and would love your advice on what I need to do. This is our ONLY month TTC....we are taking the approach of "if it's meant to be, it will happen" (mainly my husband's doing since he wasn't really too thrilled about trying again). SOOOO....I have to interfere a little bit here because I *really* want it to happen this month. :worry: After much reading, I think this is my plan. Can you please adjust/comment?

• Both DD's were conceived on o-2 and 0 days, so planning the same approach (I usually O on CD25, so DTD on CD 23/25).
• Going to try Rephresh (every 3 days after AF stops?)
• Drinking Diet Cokes, sticking to the girl diet

Should I consider baby aspirin or cranberry? Anything else?? 'm trying to take as much of a "laid back" approach, but knowing that I have to somewhat interfere since I won't have a shot after this month ends.

THANKS LADIES!!!

I should also add, I am taking BBT to confirm O and doing OPK's. I'm not sure on timing for BD, other than I'll probably just plan to do it every day until I get my positive OPK (and then randomly in the period of time before the fertile window). Is that okay??

Hi, I think I covered this in your other threads.