Want a girl so bad but trying to be mentally ready for a boy.
I am not pregnant yet but we are going to be starting to try this month. I want a baby girl so bad but I just have a very strong feeling I am just going to be a boy mom. I keep going back and forth that I will be so happy with another boy but then the next day I can't get off this site about my huge desire for a girl.
I find it so hard seeing people with girls, I went to a craft show and there were about 10 baby girls and it actually made my heart hurt. My sister in law is pregnant with her second girl and their family always talks about how great it is that she has two girls and they’ll be sisters and sisters are the best, while I sit there with my sweet boy. It’s hard seeing everyone get exactly what they want. Is it weird that if she was having a boy I know I would have been 95% fine having another boy but once I found out she was having a girl I felt like I wouldn't be fine. I love my son with my entire heart and am so happy I had him even though I so badly wanted a girl, so I do know that I would feel the same about a second boy.
I feel like its girl season right now, either all births are girls or everyone that is finding out genders are girls and once I start trying (and get pregnant) it’s probably going to be boy season.
Is there any way to prepare yourself for a gender that may not be your desired gender but know that you’ll still love to pieces? We are only having two babies so I just want to try to be ready for this..