I have a BFP and I'm nervous

Hi Everyone,

Its been a while since I last posted something on here. so here's the story LOL, I have been skipping breakfast since Jan 17, tried to be on LE diet as much as I can, been a vegetarian most of the time but I do cheat on chicken once in a while. but I'm so strict as in counting calories of anything like that I did lose about 5kg in this phase of time probably because I reduce snacking but I did cheat sometimes especially before period because all I want is just to eat everything.

we did ttc in june with my hubby release everyday and one attempt on positive opk but we got BFN, then we did the E4d dtd but I was not strict and tried not to control everything that is our of my control and I was very tired the past week and my period is due this Friday so I just thought why don't I just check UPT on Monday 24/7 (yesterday) and I got a BFP.

we are so happy but i'm nervous in a way because I was not strict in doing everything and maybe we want this to be our daughter and this is the last time we are going to have a baby because hubby is turning 40 next year. Just need to vent out. Do you guys think I stand a chance in having our girl. I know at the end of the day its in God's hand. Thanks

:DS:2012 :DS:2015

Hi believeandhope yes you have a chance at hearing pink . I did pretty much what you did while ttc and it wasnt happening for me until i losened up alittle and went with e4d sometimes had a cheat etc otherwise the diet is just too hard .. we are aloud to CHEAT . I stopped controlling everything an then i got my bfp ... and my girl is on the way after 4 boys . So keep the faith and pink dust to you !! :fx: this is your daughter Xx
Good luck
P.s dont forget to post your sway :cheer:

Enjoy your pregnancy don't worry I know how you feel! Congrats

Congratulations!!!

Congratulations on your BFP fx for a healthy pink bean! It's natural to second guess your sway but you have a strong sway there and every chance at a girl good luck xx

ahh congrats on your baby girl! yes it's funny when you just loosen up a little bit and it happens lol. finger cross we will have our dream baby girl. At the end of the day its a gift. How do I post my sway?

thank you x

You always have a chance, and I swear that it is ok to do exactly what you did. That long on diet is great! EVERYONE who did diet that long relaxed over time, and they get much better results than people who dieted strictly for only 2-4 weeks. Length is better than strictness!

It is the people who dot every 1 and cross every t and never compromise with swaying who get opposites. IT is GOOD to relax and be more laid back about it all.