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Hi mommies and mommy 2 🐝🐝
I have a question... I am swaying for blue with diet But I am scared that if we bd too early (or too Often) that I Will conceive a princess again (after already having 4). I saw a few moms here that bd quite alot and still got boys. I Just Dont know What to do.
Do you recognize this and how are you dealing with this?
I still do not know gender, but I did every other day until positive opk and then I did 4 in a row. The main thing, from what I believe, is to bd at least 3 times in your fertile window.
Here is my chart, but again, I don't know gender yet lol this is just my blue sway attempt. https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/201...4b23b764ab.jpg
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WoW. Nice chart. I am going to try and make one. So curious What you are having. We have 4 girls (2 planned and 2surprises) I wonder if baby #5 Will be a girl again if we bd too early before my o. Because they say girls slimmers surivive longer Than boys. Well we'll see... very exciting though. FX
Getting the BD right is the part that concerns me about our blue sway too. It's the one part that I can't fully control. We never tried really hard to get pregnant so I'm sure both my DDs were conceived with only one or two attempts. Can't imagine trying to get 3-4 attempts in. Firstly because life with two toddlers will likely get in the way and also because DP gets a bit put off BD when it's showtime. Imagine BDing so often in the fertile window will make it hard to hide the fact it's O time.
I also don't put much stock in the idea of female swimmers lasting longer (or boy swimmers being quicker), I think it's all part of the debunked Shettles stuff.
Most of us on here, not everyone, but most, stuck to Shettles timing in previous conceptions and got opposites doing that. Shettles does not work, the idea has been totally debunked, we even know what the mistake was that Dr. Shettles made, that makes all his theories erroneous and I have a full tale about that here: https://genderdreaming.com/forum/gen...le-timing.html
At least 3 of my 4 boys were cutoffs. We BD every couple days or so (this is what we always do, average of 3-4 times a week BD) but normally my husband will pull out during my fertile time. So when we were trying with my 2nd and 3rd son, we were doing exactly that during the early part of the month but without the pullout - sex regularly unprotected every 2 days or so. Once I got fertile, with my 2nd son, husband changed his mind and refused to "complete the transaction" when I was fertile but it was too late, I conceived anyway, so it was a long cutoff. With my 3rd son, I was trying for SHettles cutoff and so we did our normal routine, regular unprotected sex, and then 3-4 days before I even expected ovulation to happen, he left to go do something at his mom's house and wasn't even HOME when I ovulated!! So again, lots of regular sex, did not DTD on O, still got boy.
My first son wasn't planned, we BD 2 or 3 times (that was a long time ago!!) and it was right after I got off my period so I was sure it was safe, so again, had to be long cutoff, but still a boy. And with my 4th, although I'm not certain when I ovulated in relation to when he was conceived, we were doing the pattern we always do which is sex every couple days so no matter when I would have Oed, I'd have had at least one or even two cutoff BD even IF I had sex on O Day, which I very well may not have.
But studies done using MODERN technology have proven beyond a shadow of a doubt that X and Y sperm live the exact same amount of time, swim the same speed, and are about the same size. All those old claims were Dr. Shettles' Big Mistake and are completely baseless. We know 110% that X and Y sperm live the same amount of time. Those old theories do not work.Quote:
Originally Posted by girlymom
What we have found is that it's imperative to have more than one attempt in your fertile window. If BD before O-1 is too scary to you, that's fine, just have hubby release every 2-4 days and then BD O-1, the morning of O Day, and then again the night of O DAy for a boy. This is fine if you prefer it and in line with Shettles timing.