Worried about our attempt...

Can anyone give input on our attempt this month? Im wondering what my chances are for a girl, or really, for a baby at all.
Im 31 years old, I have 3 children, the youngest is 18 months and still nursing, my husband is 32. Ive had my cycle back for 3 months, regular each month.
Im worried because I took my first OPK on the 8th, yesterday, and it was positive, but just barely, definitely not a blazing positive. The test line was just slightly darker than the control. Usually my first positive OPK is always a blazing positive, so I can assume I missed my first positive, probably occurring the day before, on the 7th. My OPK today is definitely negative.
I had tons and tons of EWCM from the 5th-7th of this month. Sooo much. Then I had a smaller amount of EWCM when I checked during the afternoon yesterday, the 8th, and then it pretty suddenly changed to just wet/watery by yesterday evening (the 8th). We BD last night around 11pm. I didnt have any EWCM at this point. We did not have ANY attempts before this except for the day after my period ended, on cycle day 7, the 29th of November. Last night would have been our only viable chance, if it was viable at all.
I did start to have a very noticeable heaviness feeling and crampiness yesterday evening before our attempt, lasting through this morning. My EWCM seems to be totally gone today.
Does this sound hopeful at all for becoming pregnant? I feel like I must have ovulated before our attempt, since my EWCM suddenly disappeared yesterday afternoon, way before we BD, and I was already experiencing nipple sensitivity...which I associate with post-ovulation.
Does any of this sway Pink at all?
Does it sound like ill end up pregnant at all? I know pregnancy after ovulation doesn't happen...:(
Please give me any input you have :)

Swaying changes things with OPK so I would not assume you missed your first one.

The pattern of your EWCM doesn't tell you when O Day is, regardless of what you've read online. It can get you in with a one out of three chance of O Day but no closer than that (proven in studies - even experts couldn't guess O Day any better than 1 out of 3 times. You can get EWCM for days in advance and have it even 1-2 days after O.

So, while I can't tell you when you ovulated (no one can without ultrasound) I can tell you that you are always in with a chance because you very well may have Oed later than you think. Good luck and pink dust.