Confused by contradictory information!

Hi all,

I’ve been trying to follow the gender dreaming advice but I’m really confused by all the contradictory information out there!

For example, I’ve started drinking 1-2 glasses of wine per night and increased caffeine intake. However, everything on most other websites says that both these things strongly sway blue. Just wondering if anyone else feels confused by this and how you go justifying all this contradictory information in your mind?

Finding it really hard to know what/who to believe.

Appreciate any advice!


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I understand! There are some things on here that are very opposite that of other swaying sites, specifically InGender and the various baby sites like BabyCenter and so on who have ripped info from there and here.

What I did and what's made me believe is the many studies and more accurate information on here supporting evidence. And if it helps, I was drinking both coffee and alcohol frequently before my DD :)

We have the stats here to back it up. Just look at the pink sway spreadsheet in the TTC a girl section. Atomic also links lots of scientific studies to support her findings.

That's what I'm here for! Just ask, ask, ask because there is always a reason why we do things differently.

All the other sites base their sway advice on old outdated information dating back to the 1960's or even before that, and then they never change anything regardless of new information or results. They don't even really track their results - they only include results in which people all do the exact same things again and again. So not only do they ignore newer evidence, they also don't keep track of the things that are really working for people. Most of us on here, myself included, got BOYS doing things their way, and we were looking for better ways to sway and that's why I started doing all this investigation. I learned that much of what the other sway sites claimed was simply not true, it had been either fully debunked by modern scientists using cutting edge technology, or they had completely misrepresented biological facts.

This site is us coming together to see what really works for swaying based on the newest research instead of just recycling the same old things that most of us got boy(s) with. And to get rid of the stuff that doesn't and cannot work and cuts odds of conception so far people can't get pregnant doing them. BEcause I really want everyone to get their desired gender!

I have a full explanation on why the other sites are wrong about alcohol and coffee for swaying here: http://genderdreaming.com/forum/gend...s-swaying.html Both of these things have GREAT results and TBH I am pretty shocked that all the sites have not started using them based on our results!

And I have a full explanation of the origins of this site and where I "came from" that may shed more light on why the recommendations on this site are different http://genderdreaming.com/forum/gend...sh-anyway.html