Sylk lube: how to use to TTC?

I am swaying for a girl and am going to ovulate in the next few days...I want to try using Sylk to lower PH/etc. this cycle. Two questions:

1. Is this available to purchase brick and mortar? If so, where have you found it?
2. How exactly do I use it? Do I lubricate myself (fingertip inside or what?) prior to BD? How far in advance of BD? Or does DH do it? Or both? Do I do a fingertip again a certain time after BD? for how long? What if I am using a diva cup or instead cup? Can I lubricate THAT and put it in after BD, would that keep PH down?

Thanks in advance!! I just don't want to screw this up.

I bought it on amazon.com
I heard that the best way is to put it on dh. You can use it right before you dtd. Put it onto dh so therefor when he is inside you it gets into all your nooks and crannies.
As far as I know, it is not something to be used after dtd.

There's a bit about Sylk in here: http://genderdreaming.com/forum/gend...ure-lubes.html

I think it's best to just use it as you would use any lube.

Personally, I'm not a fan of the whole "cup" thing for pink (all it does is keep max. amounts of sperm and semen in your vaj) and I would rather you did a jump and dump instead.http://genderdreaming.com/forum/gend...r-swaying.html http://genderdreaming.com/forum/show...ting-Technique

You will prob. also want to read this thread http://genderdreaming.com/forum/ttc-...-rephresh.html - there may be other jelly/pH options that will work better for you (altho I really like Sylk and think it's a great addition to a sway)