Swaying Pink! Coming from ingender..

Hello everyone,

We are going to be swaying pink in the next few months and I had been on ingender which seems a little intense. For one, telling everyone to consume mass amounts of aspartame to get a girl is scary since that in itself is really bad for you. I also was seeing the baby dust method which is about timing but that seems to really still be 50/50 after looking into it.

Anyway, I’d love if anyone could provide me with what their successful girl sways consisted of? We weren’t swaying or anything when we had our son, we just BD like every day for a month.

Thank you!


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Hiya - good luck for your sway
My successful sway girl who is 6 months was with one attempt at positive opk,
No snacking, eating within LE limits, reduced meat, no tea, added coffee in the week before ovulation and alot of praying ❤️ Xx

Oh and hubby did an unintentional 6/7 day abstain as he had man flu ��

Thank you! Do you mean reduced red meat or meat altogether?

Did you take any supplements or anything too? Or what about exercise did you change that?


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Timing has been proven to be ineffective - I am sure atomic has an essay on it but I don't have the link. Also massive amounts of aspartame are not Healthy and I think partially contributed to my Ds1 and Ds2 (artificial sweeteners in large amounts if not aspartame itself). I have had 2 boys followed by my beautiful DD after a more relaxed sway following LE PCOS diet (swayed with LE diet first time but had Gestational diabetes with DS1 so think this may have contributed to my sway opposite with DS2) and one attempt in fertile window (wasn't trying to conceive at the time - birth control fail- but supports evidence that one attempt awaits girl). I am sure without this site and the support from the lovely people on it (especially atomic ) I wouldn't have my DD who is the most amazing thing in my life. Good luck with your sway, am sure others on this site and atomic will provide you with a wealth of information.

Yes exactly - and FWIW my observation has been the people having the most aspartame got the most BOYS to such extent I even wondered if it may be swaying blue. https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum...me-thread.html

Babydust simply stole our one attempt (years after we had discovered it) found some ridiculously hokey study that supposedly "proved" it, combined it with Shettles and some frequency stuff (our results show clearly frequency does nothing), and then made a Facebook page where comments have to be approved by moderators before they're posted. There's no way to know if their method is even working and I regularly have people show up here who have been trying for a year or more on Babydust and did not get pregnant using it.

my sway is here https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum...july-20-a.html

What’s funny is I’m in that group and any time I tried to post a poll or something to see whose sway worked she denies it and come up with some reason as to why. So I decided to make a sheet tracking the sways and so far it’s 50/50 for “perfect” baby dust girl sways and it’s 100% success for “imperfect” ones which is saying something. The fact she doesn’t approve almost anything she is afraid will debunk her is a sign in itself on top of what I’ve been tracking. Maybe timing is helpful mixed with stuff.


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Oh wow thanks for letting me know that.

Timing, while it's totally fine if you want to do it, is as debunked as it's possible for anything in science to be debunked. https://genderdreaming.com/forum/gen...le-timing.html It's the most studied element of gender swaying by far and if it worked we would have incontrovertible proof of it. But like I said it's fine if you want to include it!