Positive opk? BD schedule

Why I’m I so confused and worried! I have 4 kids and been pregnant sooo many times! I had a chemical two weeks ago. Doc said my hormones were not balanced was the cause most likely. This cycle I’m totally back to normal a ton of cm and no spotting yay doc says I am good for this cycle. I usually conceive fast! But I’m on cd 12 and last night my opk got darker and got a solid smile early this morning and first response test line is a tad bit darker than control. Now usually it gets way darker than control line, but I do not want to mess up since I have no clue if I will o early this cycle. I usually o cd 15. We BD around 1:30 am.

Question is I am not sure if I should bd again late tonight or wait till tomorrow. Problem is I’m worried what if I o tomorrow! I’m confused! Might just bd tonight after midnight again, it does need to be 24 hours right? we can’t BD till late anyway because my older ones are always up! And my younger ones are always in my bed!

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Your doctor is incorrect. The most common cause of chemicals BY FAR is chromosomal abnormalities. I don't understand why doctors continue to perpetuate this myth that a woman's body is wrong or malfunctioning when the truth is simply that sometimes the egg isn't right, the sperm isn't right, or the way they combine isn't right. so please put any worry about your "unbalanced hormones" out of your mind, it was just one of those things that happen sometimes unfortunately.

I don't know what you mean by "it does need to be 24 hours". Can you elaborate?

My rule of thumb is this - for best chance of pink, stick with the attempt you've had. For a better chance of conception but possibly better odds of blue, have another attempt.

My DH is 44 no issues with sperm, I don’t know where I read u had to wait 24 hours to bd again. I’d figure I ask you because you always answer me truthfully throughout the years. I think I want two attempts I don’t want to miss my chance regardless of gender. Since this time I am getting surge early

you don't need to wait 24 hours to BD. Wheenever you're ready to add an attempt please feel free.

Thanks!