Hi ladies, After going through many "How I Got My Girl" posts I really am thinking that exercise is a KEY factor in swaying a girl. I noticed that a lot of ladies who conceived girls were exercising regularly or at least HARD at the time of conception. How many ladies with a failed sway didn't exercise? It's something to look at. My heart is telling me to not do the starvation diet. Just eat healthy, have some b vitamins (b-50 complex) and everything in moderation, BUT to have more calcium, drink more milk, eat yogurt etc, and work out! That is something I have never really done. Today I enjoyed lean turkey meat and raw veggies with crystal lite for lunch and it was absolutely delicious! In my childhood and teen years I was extremely active in gymnastics, and dance, but once I turned 20 I just stopped it all, and I gained 30ish lbs! and up to last yr I have pretty much remained overweight, but a steady number I always stayed at. I personally hate to exercise, (LOVE the feeling afterwards) but I know it's what I need to do. When I turned 30 last year, all of a sudden it was like a switch was flipped. I gained 10-15 lbs in a matter of months! I'm not encouraging the starvation diet + exercise. That would be a recipe for disaster. If we work out regularly, you can eat and you will burn a lot of fat and calories. It's something to think about. It feels and looks like I've lost 10 lbs in a month because I haven't had a single coke. (a lifetime habit 1-2 a day since childhood) Crazy how drastic changing one habit can be. I know it's making a major impact on my body. May I also add that I am a firm believer on the temperature of our man's packages.. on how it sways as well. Just think, if you and your hubby worked out together it would probably really help you sway pink. It's a new approach I'm going to try, that and prayer. So here's to BIG change and a prayer! I really do believe that some of our little ones are just meant to be no matter how hard we sway, but I want to try to make healthy changes and see what that does :wink: :heart: to all of you, you are fantastic, amazing and strong women!