Originally Posted by
ahorn586
I had my check up today and all is well the doctor wasn't able to find the heartbeat with the doppler so I had to get an u/s (yayyy!!) So I got to see our little bean just jumping around!! It was awesome! I've nicknamed the baby "jumping bean" lol. They could barely get the heart rate because the baby was moving around so much but they were able to capture it at 165bpm. I do feel little disheartened though. I decided to go with a different doctor than my previous pregnancies bc I knew my old doctor would not even consider a vba2c so when I went in for a yearly exam with the new doctor he said he was open to discussing it. So, when I went in today I asked about it and he said that most practitioners would advise against because of the complications but I really felt like he was trying to scare me vs. giving me all the information to make an informed decision. He told me that there was a 3% percent chance of uterine rupture and then out of that 3% there is a 1 in 400 chance that the baby could die or need life long care. I just feel like this is something I would like to attempt at least. I don't like the doctor deciding what day my babies will be born. I would like to leave that up to God as to what day my baby is ready to come on. Now, I'm stuck between giving up on my finally shot at having a vba2c or just giving in and having a scheduled CS. Any thoughts? I just feel really conflicted right now...