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i only have 1 opk left! i will take my last one later today, im assuming it will turn positive today. i dont know what to do about bd.
we bd sunday night/monday morning (1.00am) is it best to have another attempt wed which i didnt want to do or attempt on thursday or will that be too late if i end up ovulating thursday??? ideally it would be best thursday morning but its prob not possible,lol. if i ovulate tomorrow is there a good chance of conception from bd sunday?
It is totally possibly to conceive on Wednesday from BD Sunday :)
I think I would stick to BD Thursday compromise with Thurs AM if you are worried.
you dont really know when you ovulate though do you? thats the problem.my opk says 24-48 hours after a positive.so it could be tomorrow or thursday.Then the egg only sticks around 12-24 hours! this was so much easier before the miscarriage :worry:
I'm 12 DPO was almost sure about the pregnancy but still test negative on the tests. I have all the symptoms, even my stomach sticks out, LOL!
Maybe it is in my head(I thought I saw a shade of a line 8DPO). I will test again today or maybe wait one more day, hope it is still early.
3boys- I don't see a line, but I'm hoping you do in a couple of days. FX
sc1411- I bet you are pregnant! With DS2, I felt pregnant and had all of the classic symptoms but couldn't get a positive HPT until I was 21DPO! I thought I was crazy! FX and blue dust [emoji92][emoji841][emoji843][emoji841][emoji94]
Eleena- so close! I would still BD either Wednesday or Thursday which will still be a good attempt. Depends on if you want 3 or 4 days. Both have good odds for pink.
Junie- FX you O soon and catch that egg! I'm hoping a relaxing vacation does the trick [emoji8]!
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Thanks XX!
I was starting to think I'm loosing my mind.
With my last DD I had BFP earlier:)
Well I've just stuffed my last opk up. I noticed when I did a wee I had a load of cm drip out (tmi) and it dripped onto the opk. Then I noticed it wasn't working as it should be. Grrrr! The test line showed up after a few min and then a fainter line than this morning. But I noticed that it wasnt changing colour properly as the urine passes through the window. Unless it was working and they're now fading out??? I don't know [emoji31]
Ok ladies, I'm going to sound like one of "those" women but..if I shine a flashlight from behind the pregnancy test and I can see a line..does that mean anything?
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Usually there is an indent line that can be seen like that, especially on FRER. I know the feeling of looking at tests all different ways and seeing a line. Hoping you will see a beautiful pink line soon!!! FX!!FX!!Quote:
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thanks! i'm sure that's what it is, but, at least it gives me a little hope that i might get a BFP soon. absolutely, have no signs or symptoms and its discouraging. oh, and it was a dollar tree testQuote:
Originally Posted by djmommy
Dollar tree tests are very sensitive like the FRERs. I bet you will get a positive in 2-3 days.Quote:
Originally Posted by smarston3
FX!!!!
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I agree!!!!!Quote:
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3boys, smarston, scm- good luck testing!
Eleena, buy some more OPKs! This is why I temp...bc OPKs don't work very well for me and not knowing what's happening drives me crazy.
I don't think I will buy anymore the ones I get are £3 just for 5 and then I've got to pay the bus fare to get into town. I'm pretty sure I'm ovulating today as my cm was clear and wet and it felt like I had wet myself. Lol. I'm also getting pinching pains now. I'm getting fed up with stressing myself about it and df doesn't like me telling him when to bd. He said it shouldn't be like this and it should be fun. I just want a bfp. I'm ready now. I can tell I am because I uses to get really nervous before our attempt but now I don't, I just want it to happen.
I could just cry right now. We just had another attempt. It's wed 1.00am. Which means we have now had two attempts which is not what I wanted to do. We kinda got carried away tonight but I told him not to come inside me but he did.😡. Is this really really bad??? We bd Sunday night/ early hours Monday morning as I thought I would get a +opk but didn't. Today mid morning I got a almost positive don't know if that was fading in or out as I feel I ovulated tonight as I have had pinching ovary pain.
Eleena just crashing in to say please please don't stress! I too ended up doing 2attempts Sunday and Tuesday ovulated Thurs and I'm 37 weeks with DD. Its life things happen!! FX its your BFP XX
Does anybody know what an bbt drop on DPO 4 and then another drop below cover line on DPO 5 could mean? I'm getting frustrated trying to figure it out... I hope everything is OK. This is the first month we had kind of decent timing ( with 2 attempts ) and now my temps are going nuts. My temps during my period were extremely high this cycle too. They are usually quite low by CD2 or 3.
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Maybe implantation dip or maybe you haven't ovulated yet would be my guesses.Quote:
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Eleena I wouldn't worry at all. You might not actually ovulate until this afternoon or even later which would mean it was basically still only 1 attempt in the fertile window.
smarston- Evap lines can be barely visible on the cheapie tests. Try to convince yourself to just wait for tomorrow as that test will be able to give you better answers. I think not having any symptoms means nothing. My last pregnancy that ended in a miscarriage there was a woman expecting twins on a birth month board I was a part of that had basically no symptoms whatsoever. It is just how your body processes the hormones so you are definitely still in the game!
I'm still waiting to O. I'm also still having a bit of spotting every day which is so weird I have never had that before ovulation before. I really want to start BDing whenever I feel like it so I hope I O soon!!!!!!Also my DH hates that I am drinking every day, not much sometimes just a glass or 2 of wine or a beer but he thinks it is unhealthy but I feel like it sways pink and since my sway sucks now I don't want to give it up. It is also hard to do even a light sway diet at this hotel. I've started eating breakfast again and fasting between breakfast and dinner but I'm sure I'm consuming a ton of calories every day. Come on body, please O!!!
How is everyone else doing?
How far in your cycle are you Junie? I wonder what the spotting could mean too? I'm sorry.. I look at this from my phone so can't see charts [emoji17]Quote:
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im pretty sure i ovulated yesterday. i just dont understand what was going off with opk's.
from fri i had ewcm i have been testing since friday,yesterday i had watery cm which i have read is the one the you get onpeak day of ovulation.today i have next to nothing
Eleena, sounds like you o'ed! I wouldn't stress over the timing. Your diet and overall health are much more important factors.
My temps are unusually high for this part of my cycle since dd gave me her cold. I'm thinking odds might favor a girl this cycle, but at this point I don't care and odds are low I'll get pregnant anyway, right? I know that sounds really pessimistic, but I am still hopeful it'll happen eventually.
i am stressing,lol. everything i did before the miscarriage i have now cut out,such as baby aspirin,i now dont take antihistamines,although i did take one when we had our attempt sun. df is no longer taking lr or aspirin.i started him on ole but he doesnt take that as mush as he should as it upsets his stomach.
i have been doing a loose sway since jan and have managed to loose about 9lb which i know will help. i havent been doing exercise either.this is why i really wanted to keep at one attempt.if i did ovulate yesterday and we had an attempt whilst i was ovulating (i had pains) would this be classed as an attempt?
Eleena, I wouldn't worry, you could O later than you think and end up with only 1 attempt in your fertile period.
Sunbuny, unfortunately I really don't think you have Oed yet, your temps are so low and not much of a shift. FF often assigns O when it has yet to occur.
Junie, I was really hoping to see a temp rise from you, darn! Late/unpredictable O is sooo annoying. :(
I have my RE appt in 2 hours. I won't mention swaying. I doubt they can do anything for me this month except maybe put me on hormones if my lining is thin, since it is already CD8. I did take a pregnancy test just in case but stark white BFN. So it was just a super light AF, I'm not actually 13DPO. Very light line on my OPK so I don't expect to O for another 10 days, sigh.
DF is anti drug and won't be a donor if I need meds to conceive. LOL. Yeah, I told him he won't be my donor anyway. What an ass.
Eleena- I wouldn't worry, this maybe what was needed for you to conceive. Plus it is your overall condition that matters! FX you caught the egg!
Sage- I had high temps with DS2 and I was sick- I had an awful cold from DS1 [emoji8][emoji170]!
Junie- I hope you O soon!!
Maiden- please update us after your appointment!
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Eleena, I think most people have fertile (eggwhite or watery) cm for a few days before O (since that is when your chances of pregnancy are highest) and then by O day everything has already dried up. I know that's how I am every cycle. I get watery cm from about CD 10-13, then dry or sticky cm from CD14 till AF arrives. On average, I O on CD15 and I NEVER have fertile cm on that day. I've had two oops pregnancies like that so I wouldn't worry about it. Based on your cm, my guess is you are probably going to O today or tomorrow, which means you are still in with one attempt! By O day my opks are already negative as well. My +opks match up with my fertile cm and go negative the day before and the day of O. Fingers crossed for you!Quote:
Originally Posted by eleena2014
But what about the pains? Don't they coincide with ovulation day?
Not necessarily. You can get O pains before, during, or after O.Quote:
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FX you caught the egg!!!
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Hope so x
Do you always get ovulation pains Eleena? I generally don't so can't use that as a guide and I find that opks don't work for me. I stopped using them and I do feel more relaxed this month. I go off temps and cm now. Good luck! I hope you caught the egg. Here's hoping we all do.
Good luck with the Dr Maiden. Really hope they are able to figure out what is going on.
My temps rose again this morning. I'm pretty sure I ovulated last week and not sure what my temps are doing. Time will tell I guess.
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Good luck with the Dr. Maiden!!
I explained to DH that as soon as I confirm O I'll stop drinking all the time and now he is fine with it, which is nice for me. Now I just want to O so we can BD again!
That's nice Junie. Ur DH sounds sweet. I've been pretty bad with the drinking part of my sway... I only had a few drinks this month..not enough to count I don't think. If we're not lucky enough to conceive this month I will drink more next month. Are you doing exercise as well? I'm considering dropping it next month. I'm finding 6 months of diet, exercise, work and 2 boys too much to handle. I feel something has to give.
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I've only been starting getting them since the miscarriage in Nov . But my doctor said the pains could be due to constipation? Which I have been getting sometimes but I'm pretty sure they're ovulation pains
Mmmm... I think if you can see a pattern around ovulation time over months it's more likely to be ovulation pains. If it's constant over the month then maybe constipation. I don't feel Dr's ever have much faith in our observations regarding fertility signs. Do you all find the same thing?
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I got BFP!!!
12 DPO, late in the evening, very very tiny line, but it is there. I had to let the test sit for several hours to get it(pharmacy brand test). Wondfo tests are still negative 13DPO. I will retest in couple of days to make sure it is right and I'm sane, LOL.
Congrats sunbuny
I sure hope and [emoji120] for a blue, sticky bean for you! Sending you heaps of rambunctious and snugly with mama, blue baby dust [emoji8][emoji92][emoji170][emoji843][emoji170][emoji94]Quote:
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The RE asked surprisingly little, but did take blood despite me being on CD8. They say my CD doesn't matter, though I explained I O around CD18. I am paying extra to get my AMH level checked. DF will submit a SA tomorrow am (just what I want to do at 8am on my bday...NOT). Then on April 7th we have another appt to talk about our tesr results. They took blood from DF too. Not sure what they check on him? Apparently HIV tests are mandated for both of us, maybe that's it?
I did mention my short LP, late O, and generally irregular length but within normal range cycles (this last prompted the dr to check my AMH). Totally forgot to bring up my super light AFs recently. But the dr was interested in charting and I will bring my last couple years of charts to my next appointment.
Then I walked around Koblenz looking for a nice restaurant and like last time I was in Koblenz couldn't find a single appealing one. It is a culinary dead zone, I swear. I vastly prefer Bonn on the whole but the Bonn fertility Centre is booked up through August.
So we ended up at an old favourite restaurant in a town 5km away from my house, for our joint bday dinner I had a cocktail and quail and steak and a dessert sampler! But I couldn't eat it all so I doubt it even counts as a cheat. Tasty though :)
Tomorrow I will try to test drive a SKODA Yeti bc I really need a new car that I can drive comfortably. And I will do my favourite thing, go to a new Bio (organic) supermarket!