I'm so sorry Immi :( I'll be praying for a sticky bean for you if you decide to try again. This just sucks!!
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I'm so sorry Immi :( I'll be praying for a sticky bean for you if you decide to try again. This just sucks!!
Ah Immi I am so sorry! :( I hope you get your healthy sticky bfp this month. Big hugs x
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So after thinking I was getting close to O and having strong opk lines since CD6 I wake up this AM to get a very light test line compared to previous tests. I wonder why my body gears up to O and then just doesn't - I hope it will gear up again but actually release the eggie! CD 13 today, would be an early O for me anyway lol. My average I'd about CD17-19 SK hoping this cycle is a semblance of normal!
I'm so sorry Immi :( I really hope you get a sticky bfp this month!
I'm still very tender from the clomid and pretty sure I will ovulate tomorrow or the next day. I was considering BDing tonight but it would make it attempts every 2 days so I will wait until tomorrow. After comparing my last OPK from last month the one I took today isn't quite as dark so it might be better to hold off. I just feel nervous about only having an O-3 attempt if I do O tomorrow.
OMG I think I'm the sickest I've been in a very long time, why does the shit hit the fan every cycle around O [emoji17] waiting to see dr now. Who knows if I can trust this mornings temp and the next few days now, we would be due to bd again tomorrow but I really don't think I could do it if I still feel like this [emoji17] anyway enough whinging - I'm usually so good when I'm sick and get on with it but I feel so pathetic right now [emoji17] oh and I did something really silly and because I was feeling so bad I took 2 cold and flu tablets without even thinking...
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Oh Immi I am so sorry here I am having a pity party and you have been going through this, so sorry this has happened, hugs Xx
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I'm so sorry Immi! :sad: I really hope this is your month. Fingers crossed.
Hopper I nearly missed my +opk this month. I had my surge from 1am-6am. I was just lucky I was testing so much and had other signs like ewcm. Hope you get +opk soon.
II think you're right the odds go up! Best to check first and weigh up your options. How have your bloods etc come back looking? Have you had a hormone profile done? X
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Immi I am so sorry and I hope you have better luck this month. You must feel devastated. Lots of love xxx
Hopper maybe your urine was slightly dilute and it will continue to darken as the days go on? I have odd light tests sometimes! X
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Immi I'm so sorry :( Must be so difficult. I really hope you will get bfp soon and a sticky bean!
I'm really sorry immi that seems very unfair. Wishing you lots of luck if you choose to try again X
Mammacass, I'm sure that being unwell is actually a good thing for a pink sway??!!! I have read about a few people who conceived girls (who weren't swaying, had given up and got unexpected bfps) who were unwell immediately after and unable to eat etc. I'm sure I have read that this can increase your chances of getting a pink one! Sorry you are feeling rotten though x
Still waiting on the results from the bloodwork they took at the end of last week, hopefully I will hear something today. When I due finally get a +OPK I will be going in for more bloodwork.
Currently CD16 and not seeing anything close to positive OPK's yet, and of course DH will be gone from Thursday - Sat or Sunday. Figures I was sick last week so I think that is delaying O and DH won't be around when I do O. I will make sure we get attempts in tonight, maybe tomorrow night and then definitely Thursday morning before he leaves and hope the swimmers survive.
I asked Atomic about Clomid and twins and she said they haven't had hardly any TTC boy sway people having twins. She also said most people that take Clomid have PCOS and having PCOS increases your chances of twins just by itself, so since I don't have that I am not as worried. If it happens, it happens. I am waiting to get my FSH number before making a final decision about the Clomid.
Oh Immi I'm so, so sorry. :( I understand wanting to give it one more go. I hope we get our rainbow babies very soon. :big hug:
Hopper, is it possible you did actually ovulate but it was just a short or weak surge so you didn't get a definite pos. OPK? Sometimes you can get OPKs that are *almost* positive and then they fade to really light then bam, blazing positive a few days later.
Mamacass, sorry you're feeling like crud. I do believe feeling sick is good for a girl sway though. ;)
CD22 for me today. Got a blinking smiley on CB advanced OPK this morning and my cheapie OPKs were getting darker yesterday. Not holding out much hope though. LOL My body loves to play tricks on me. We're doing E4D with my cycles being so irregular and the last time we DTD was two days ago so I'm a bit nervous if I end up with an O-3 attempt but we'll see. I got pregnant last time on O-3 however I think that was either pure luck or I o'ed a little later than I thought.
Immi I'm so sorry you are having to go through this. Fx you get a BFP as soon as possible.
Ksmom blinks sounds close. Sorry your feeling down mamacass.
Well 10dpo and still bfn. Promising myself I won't test again until AF is supposed to come because I hate seeing the negative. I still go back and forth, I'm pregnant and the test isn't showing yet and then remind myself that my body could be just gearing up for AF and I'll be disappointed. Still crampy to the point it's hurting my back now and still nauseous as all get out. Chart is looking good though. I want to cry because I want it to be all our months.
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So so sorry Immi! That really sucks! I hope your sticky BFP is just around the corner. Have you asked Atomic for any additional advice, especially if this is your last cycle TTC? When I got my BFP, that cycle I stopped all alcohol and caffeine in the TWW and ate a cup of pineapple every day during the TWW as well. FX for you!
Oh Immi I'm sorry!!!
I'm really hoping you are right hun, that I had seen almost +opks and then nothing followed by blazingly obvious +opks! I remember when doing opks on DS1 that was what happened and it was this post that jogged my memory, so thank you very much for that :) I hope that's what's happening this cycle too!!
I haven't posted much but have been following. Immi, I'm so sorry :( To others waiting best of luck :)
I do not do temping or OPK as they stress me out so we have been doing e4d and I am on cd24 today. Had blood drawn yesterday to check if ovulated on the 100mg clomid. I have been feeling yucky and crampy so hoping those are good symptoms and not pms ones.
Thank you ladies, sorry for being a sooky la la [emoji38] yes I have heard being sick is potentially good for girl sway but thought it was in the lead up to O not after? Who knows, my temp was off the charts this morning due to fever so will have to muster some energy to dtd [emoji30] last thing I feel like doing lol
Ksmom fingers crossed for a well timed attempt
Sorry for the bfn signingmommy
Hi mt9178 good luck, when will you get the results?
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Sooky la la now that's a new one for me lol. I have a really good feeling about this cycle for you hun, now go and muster up that energy and get to it ;) Best have all your bases covered and let the hip propping bring home the bfp lol xxx
Ksmom I think your attempt sounds great! O-3 wouldn't be ideal but as you said you got pg on it before so it's not undoable! Keeping everything crossed you get a healthy sticky bfp this cycle my dear xxx
[emoji23][emoji23][emoji23] I remember when I first heard it.... it's something that has stuck. And thank you, after finally giving the hip propping a go I've decided I'm ok with it now - my diet is slipping fast lol fingers crossed it's both of our month x
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Hi all. I just had +OPKs on Sunday and Monday, CD14 and CD15. We DTD Sunday night, and then again Monday night. We are swaying pink, but I felt like I needed the second attempt. This is our 2nd month swaying. I didn't get much EWCM this month, which is weird for me, and that is making me worried. I'll wait until 13-14dpo to test.
Attachment 28392Attachment 28391So I went back today to look at this mornings test....please tell me I'm not imagining this...honestly. I won't believe until I comes up darker.
Oh wow signing I can definitely see a pale line there!! So it didn't show up this morning though? Looking forward to tomorrow's test [emoji3]
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Hi Bertie wishing you luck [emoji4]
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Really sorry to Immi......my fingers are crossed for you for this month!
I can definitely see a faint line there signing! :-)
Good luck Bertie and mt! I'm only 3dpo ovulation and I've convinced myself I must be pregnant because I feel a little rubbish......ah well only 7 days until I test! Xxx
Signing- that is a positive!! I can't wait to see a new test! Remember though, it can take about 2-3 days for a test line to darken due to the doubling times of HCG and make sure your urine is concentrated.
FX!!!
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I can definitely see where you are coming from! Hips were propped here after our Thursday attempt and again on Monday lol. Was hesitant at first but feel ok with it now. Hopefully it's that that makes all the difference ;)
Best of luck Bertie!
Oh signing I do see something there on both tests!! Fingers crossed for you!!
So test line on opks is practically gone, all cramping has stopped and CM is gone. This is exactly what happened last month except I got the solid smiley opk whereas I didn't get a solid line on the Wondfo this cycle. The closest to solid lines I got was on CD12 and we dtd that PM but line was gone in the AM so hoping IF that was O we didn't miss it!! Hopefully my body is just messing with me and I will have a strong O later in my cycle!
Ooo Signing, I see something on both tests!!! I'll be stalking tomorrow for darker lines! FX for you!
Signing I see those!!!! I hope they amount to bfp's!! Im always wary of returning to tests but two different ones couldn't lie surely!!?
Hopper... Very strange! Had U of ovulated on CD12/13 you got your attempt in which is the main thing but keep on the look-out!
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Hi ladies, can I ask a question? I'm swaying boy and had an almost positive opk this morning so we dtd. I have O'd the same day as a positive opk and two days later so I'm not really sure when it happens and I was nervous. Did we dtd too early? I was planning on dtd tomorrow morning as well but should we dtd tonight too? I'm not really sure how sperm replenishes.
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Question girls - how long does SHOW last during O, like on average? My opk this AM was neg, had some cramping and a (tmi lol) gush of CM so I did a 4 hour hold and another opk. The test line is showing stronger again and when I checked CP which was high and generally medium last night it was soft high and open. The opk isn't + YET but if we are doing e3d our last attempt was two days ago so am hoping its not +ive til tomorrow!! I will continue my POAS addiction later lmbo!!
In other news my GD reared its f-ugly head this morning!! :( I mostly have it under control except under certain circumstances. A really really good friend of mine had her gender scan this AM. She has a little boy at home same age as DS1. Her DH brought her on a night away and they just decided to try for #2 and boom she was pg with one try. Of course shes having a girl and told me on FB earlier. I dunno why but PP families set me off. A few of our friends have PP families and they were all repeating the same phrases that she has "the perfect family now" and that they "knew she could do it" Argh, just annoyed me that it sparked my GD!
Im no expert on boy sways other than the fact ive got 2! I used to BD daily throughout my fertile period xx
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Hi everyone alot to catch up on!
Quinn they say 'typically' sperm takes 36-48 hours to recover but also that that is just a best estimation and can vary. From what I've read anyway so there will be varying reports. I'm only just appreciating how hard boy sway attempts are now! All I can say is with both my ds's I had multiple attempts - the first was by using fertility calculator online so I cant even say exactly how many attempts, the second ds I had attempts 3 days (pm) b4 o, day b4 o (pm) and morning of o. I would just do what you can and get an attempt in every 24-48 hours until you o. Sorry I'm not more help.
Signing I can absolutely see something on your tests!! Congratulations and cant wait for your next update!
I need to go back through and reread posts as I know I've missed some so I'll be back :) - especially yours hopper!
Right now although I seem happy I could just cry my eyes out. I ditched opks and temping to do every 3 days this cycle in order to minimize stress etc and as a bonus dh started on annual leave today. Tonight was supposed to be our first night dtd as af finished yesterday. Dh has been in bed for 2 hours, and I am still up trying to get ds1 to sleep at 10.40pm at night. ANY other night he'd be well asleep so I'm just going to have to take him to bed and give up any semblence of an attempt tonight. Doesn't help we still co sleep but he always nods off in his room or on the couch :( except tonight of course. I could literally
Ok so that just posted b4 I finished lol. Its now 10.50pm amd I've gone to bed. No bd and absolute disappointment that this is how my stress free cycle is beginning. Feel like giving up before I've started. This sucks!!! I still haven't read back through posts yet but will try b4 falling asleep. Haven't had a decent sleep in what feels like months and have to meet my 29 week pregnant friend for breakfast in the morning so very much pity party going on here :(