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Originally Posted by Ladytara

Just found out sex is male I don't really have much else to say [emoji32][emoji27][emoji22][emoji30]


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(((HUGS)))) Sorry you are feeling sad ladytara. Praying he is a healthy little boy! I know you will love him so much.

To answer your question, I will guess and have a good idea I think, but we will not get confirmation of gender until the baby is born. My DH absolutely loves to be the one to tell me what we have once the baby is born. So I will give him this gift one last time! I am wavering as to if I feel it is a girl or a boy, but with all we have been through so far I know I will love this little one no matter what and that it is definitely our last.

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Originally Posted by Ladytara

Just found out sex is male I don't really have much else to say [emoji32][emoji27][emoji22][emoji30]


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Oh gosh I am so sorry tara. I am pretty confident that I'll be in the same boat in a few days. Big hugs to you. I am sorry you didn't get your girl this time.

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Originally Posted by Ladytara

Just found out sex is male I don't really have much else to say [emoji32][emoji27][emoji22][emoji30]


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[emoji45][emoji45]aww just saw this. Sosorry to hear that ladytara....GD sucks. Congrats on a healthy baby though! Pls let us know if there is anything we can do to help!


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Ladytara I'm so sorry to hear this, I'm expecting the same news next week .. going on my last ultrasound pics! I hope you feel better over time, sending you hugs xxx

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So sorry you didn't hear pink, LadyTara [emoji22] I hope your little guy looked healthy though. Little boys love their momma so much! That makes my heart happy and has made this a little easier [emoji170] ::hugs::


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Originally Posted by Roedinga1

So sorry you didn't hear pink, LadyTara [emoji22] I hope your little guy looked healthy though. Little boys love their momma so much! That makes my heart happy and has made this a little easier [emoji170] ::hugs::


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Thanks everyone
I haven't stopped crying yet
I already have 4 boys I just thought for once I might get what I see everyone else have I honestly can't cope with anymore kids so my dream is crushed


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(((Huge Hugs))) I'm so sorry Ladytara [emoji20]! I'm glad you found out that he's healthy. Give yourself some time. It may take until you meet him for you to begin to heal. The loss of a dream is crushing, and I hope and pray that you can eventually find some peace. Know that we are all here for you and want to be.


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Originally Posted by Ladytara

Thanks everyone
I haven't stopped crying yet
I already have 4 boys I just thought for once I might get what I see everyone else have I honestly can't cope with anymore kids so my dream is crushed


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I'm so sorry you didn't get a girl!!! :( I was so hopeful for you!

Just give yourself time. It's so hard no doubt but you are a great mommy and this little one was created JUST for you. He will love you so dearly.. ❤️❤️ praying you feel better about it all soon. And cry as much as you need!! :/


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Oh Ladytara, I'm so sorry you didn't hear what you wanted to. GD is such a terrible thing to endure during pregnancy.
I so hope that you can find the light soon and that he is healthy and beautiful.

We are here for you. Please don't turn inward and endure your disappointment alone.


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Hugs Lady Tara. ..I'm sorry you didn't hear girl. I know you'll come to know this soon but 5 boys is super awesome...trust me I know! I sincerely hope you feel better soon and congratulations on a healthy naby*

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Originally Posted by Ladytara

Just found out sex is male I don't really have much else to say [emoji32][emoji27][emoji22][emoji30]


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Big Hugs LadyTara .Congrats on a healthy little bub though xx I have a feeling my little one is a boy aswell

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Originally Posted by Ladytara

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I'm so sorry you didn't hear pink, Ladytara.

Baby's heart rate was 179 today so that gives a little hope if I'm putting stock in old wives tails. DS1 was always fast though.

Honestly I'm bracing myself to hear blue again. I don't know that a fourth child is a viable option for us, so I'm still looking at all the cute girly stuff just in case this is my last chance to hope.

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Originally Posted by Ladytara

Thanks everyone
I haven't stopped crying yet
I already have 4 boys I just thought for once I might get what I see everyone else have I honestly can't cope with anymore kids so my dream is crushed


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I thought the same thing... and here I am having baby #6. I am sorry the news wasn't what you were hoping!

I was ready to stop at baby 3 but number 7 even if its a boy will definitely be our last..im gutted for you ladytara..i hope you can enjoy the rest of your pregnancy after some time out...maybe think of a nice name for him xx

Is anyone else who has previously had children not feeling anything at 15 weeks ? I know it's still quite early, and that the placenta could be anterior but is this a thing for anyone else? I felt movement at 14 weeks with my last so just hoping everything is ok...I see my doctor this week but just wanted to check in with you ladies until then....

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Originally Posted by 1pinkplease.

Is anyone else who has previously had children not feeling anything at 15 weeks ? I know it's still quite early, and that the placenta could be anterior but is this a thing for anyone else? I felt movement at 14 weeks with my last so just hoping everything is ok...I see my doctor this week but just wanted to check in with you ladies until then....

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The same thing happened to me with my DS3 and this pregnancy too. With this pregnancy, I've felt occasional movement around 14-15 weeks and now at 17 weeks I feel her at certain times of the day.

FX everything is all ok!!


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Originally Posted by 1pinkplease.

Is anyone else who has previously had children not feeling anything at 15 weeks ? I know it's still quite early, and that the placenta could be anterior but is this a thing for anyone else? I felt movement at 14 weeks with my last so just hoping everything is ok...I see my doctor this week but just wanted to check in with you ladies until then....

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My placenta was in the front on my last and i hardly felt anything until 20 plus weeks..i worried everyday..i bought one of then heart monitors to reassure me x

So I just went into a baby clothing store with my oldest son and it took all my might to Not start crying while looking at baby girl clothes. I literally had tears in my eyes. I still haven't heard the gender from my panorama scan but I just have this overwhelming feeling it's a boy. Obviously i'll love him more than anything but it hit me just how hard it's going to be for me to not shop for a little girl again etc.
I needed to vent bc I know you guys can understand just how hard this is for all of us.

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Originally Posted by Robin2014

So I just went into a baby clothing store with my oldest son and it took all my might to Not start crying while looking at baby girl clothes. I literally had tears in my eyes. I still haven't heard the gender from my panorama scan but I just have this overwhelming feeling it's a boy. Obviously i'll love him more than anything but it hit me just how hard it's going to be for me to not shop for a little girl again etc.
I needed to vent bc I know you guys can understand just how hard this is for all of us.

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Im feeling the same as you..i think im trying to convince myself its another boy so i will be ok when my results are back..hubby is more anxious than me though..this pregnancy is so different to all my others but i know that doesnt mean its a girl. even if the report says girl i probably wouldnt believe it until she was born.. i think your next to have the results and mine will be about a week next friday. Is there anyone else having harmony then? X

Oh Robin and fiveboys, my heart goes out to you! Don't lose hope! My DH said that he expected to hear boy too, because he just couldn't bear to get his hopes up again.

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I can't believe I'm 17 weeks today! Time feels like it is flying by and some days I feel like it's going to be ages until I meet our last baby! Well it's official now- MS has left but has left sour stomach in its place. I have to take a Zantac once a day now in the late afternoon. I think it's because she is higher up and my stomach is squished. Normally this happens to me later on like in at the start of the third trimester. I'm still super emotional! There was a complete marathon today where we live (a full, half, and 10k like in Boston). It runs throughout our town. Well the first runners came through, and I got touched up! It was 2 gentlemen from Uganda that are using this as one of their qualifying races. It was so amazing seeing them! They looked like graceful gazelles! Can you imagine the athleticism to be able to run a full marathon at a 2min-3min/mile pace?! Sorry for rambling!

I hope everyone is doing well!


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So you is up next to find out the gender? Amelia? Me this next week if it's obvious on US....


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Originally Posted by Wantanother2017

So you is up next to find out the gender? Amelia? Me this next week if it's obvious on US....


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I should find out this week or early next week at latest.

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Originally Posted by fiveboys

Im feeling the same as you..i think im trying to convince myself its another boy so i will be ok when my results are back..hubby is more anxious than me though..this pregnancy is so different to all my others but i know that doesnt mean its a girl. even if the report says girl i probably wouldnt believe it until she was born.. i think your next to have the results and mine will be about a week next friday. Is there anyone else having harmony then? X

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I totally understand! I am convinced this will be DS#3 & I have even picked out a name. In a way I think this will help soften the disappointment. I cant even bring myself to look at any girl things now :sad: This pregnancy is so very different but those that do know I am pregnant are all convinced that it is a girl & that just makes the GD worse. I am having my bloods on monday but wont have the results for 2 weeks as they have to be posted to america. Ridiculous! The pamphlet even said it was done in australia but the lab confirmed that they only take the bloods on mondays as they post to america on wednesdays. Crazy that in 2017 we are still sending things overseas. FX for you both ladies.

Hi Ladies

I know a few of you are coming up to finding out gender or just have. I think acknowledging that it could be girl or boy and embracing options for both whether it be name or some gender neutral colour clothes. Maybe you want to do the nursery or something. I think this helps to prepare rather than thinking hearing boy or girl is the worst outcome. It will still be your beautiful baby in the end.

I remember clearly the anxiety and stress leading up to finding out. I wish I had someone to tell me to stop, embrace the baby what will be will be. And enjoy. Particularly if this is your last pregnancy.

I also know how hard it is to do that. I remember often the overwhelming heaviness in my chest until i found out, to the point it felt like it was all i could think about or i would stress eat. But i still carry that heaviness now as i still haven't got my dd.

I wish i focused more on the pregnancy and baby rather than work myself up over the gender. Yet i know that is ultimately why we are here for and i understand its in the forefront of our thoughts always.

Once again i know how hard that is to do. I wish we could all get our desired genders and end some of the feelings of longing or guilt that we carry.

I send luck and wishes to you all.



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Originally Posted by Wantanother2017

So you is up next to find out the gender? Amelia? Me this next week if it's obvious on US....


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Hi wantanother well I am 16 weeks this Wednesday so I could find out through a gender scan which is only 80 euro but a part of me likes the idea of not knowing and thinking for another little while longer that It might be a girl .. basically I don't want to face reality and the realisation it's another boy which I'm fairly certain it is! So I'm in no rush to find out and a little scared to be honest so going to put it off... until im ready whenever that may be! Otherwise this may be a looooong pregnancy

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Netti thanks for your lovely kind words and great advice ... I definitely need to start taking it on aboard and try and start enjoying this pregnancy because it is my last and I am growing a special little soul inside of me and I need to not loose sight of that ... another little human that needs their mummy and I don't want to pass on negative thoughts or feelings to the baby... think you xxx

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Originally Posted by netti02

Hi Ladies

I know a few of you are coming up to finding out gender or just have. I think acknowledging that it could be girl or boy and embracing options for both whether it be name or some gender neutral colour clothes. Maybe you want to do the nursery or something. I think this helps to prepare rather than thinking hearing boy or girl is the worst outcome. It will still be your beautiful baby in the end.

I remember clearly the anxiety and stress leading up to finding out. I wish I had someone to tell me to stop, embrace the baby what will be will be. And enjoy. Particularly if this is your last pregnancy.

I also know how hard it is to do that. I remember often the overwhelming heaviness in my chest until i found out, to the point it felt like it was all i could think about or i would stress eat. But i still carry that heaviness now as i still haven't got my dd.

I wish i focused more on the pregnancy and baby rather than work myself up over the gender. Yet i know that is ultimately why we are here for and i understand its in the forefront of our thoughts always.

Once again i know how hard that is to do. I wish we could all get our desired genders and end some of the feelings of longing or guilt that we carry.

I send luck and wishes to you all.



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Unfortunately I am not enjoying this pregnancy at all - not because of GD but because I am just so afraid of losing this baby too. This baby is very much wanted regardless of gender. I would love a DD but ultimately all I would love is a baby without autism. Selfish? Probably. Autism sucks & already rules my life with DS1. We applied to do IVF with PGS & were refused as Australias laws suck big time. All I want to do is enjoy this pregnancy like I enjoyed my boys but the anxiety about another child with autism & the possibility of losing this baby too overrides any GD.

Lots of hugs kc xx

Sorry to hear that KC it's a constant worry, and your health really is your wealth! How many weeks are you now? Hope you can relax a little over time and start to enjoy it hun, you can really get hung up on the gender and loose sight of the bigger picture Xxx

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Sorry to hear that KC it's a constant worry, and your health really is your wealth! How many weeks are you now? Hope you can relax a little over time and start to enjoy it hun, you can really get hung up on the gender and loose sight of the bigger picture Xxx

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Im 10weeks now but still too afraid to tell anyone im pregnant yet. Hopefully once we get the genetic tests back in 2 weeks I will be able to relax a bit more. Ive just started to pop a little so it will be hard to keep hiding from everyone. Hubby also doesnt want to tell anyone either because of last time so I think that until we can share our news we cant really enjoy anything yet - we are just too terrified! We havent even told our boys yet. It also doesnt help that our other friends have autistic kids too & think we are crazy for wanting another child - they dont think its worth the risk. The genetic counsellor told us its a 1 in 4 chance with a boy & 1 in 10 with a girl. so higher than the 1 in 80 in the normal population. How I wish I could go back to my first pregnancy & be so ignorantly blissful.

(((Huge Hugs))) kc15880! I am hoping and praying that everything is all ok with your baby!


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I have missed so much! So sorry lady Tara for your hurting heart. Please know we have all been there at some point or another. We care about you and are here for you. Praying for you now.
I have two beautiful girls and desire so deeply for a son, but your statistics on autism is quite interesting KC. I thought about that and am so greatdul for healthy girls all around. I did not realize how high the difference in genders that is... praying for you to have peace no matter what.
I'm 14 weeks tomorrow but man am I showing!! I have always been on the Slim side as a personal trainer, and this is our third baby... 4th pregnancy. Why did am I showing so early? I mean my uterus is still low and baby is only the size of a lemon. It's like my uterus is pushing everything up. Lol since I know that the baby is still low I'm not going to say I have a high bump yet in correlation to the Wives tales lol. Anyone else in the same boat?

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I have missed so much! So sorry lady Tara for your hurting heart. Please know we have all been there at some point or another. We care about you and are here for you. Praying for you now.
I have two beautiful girls and desire so deeply for a son, but your statistics on autism is quite interesting KC. I thought about that and am so greatdul for healthy girls all around. I did not realize how high the difference in genders that is... praying for you to have peace no matter what.
I'm 14 weeks tomorrow but man am I showing!! I have always been on the Slim side as a personal trainer, and this is our third baby... 4th pregnancy. Why did am I showing so early? I mean my uterus is still low and baby is only the size of a lemon. It's like my uterus is pushing everything up. Lol since I know that the baby is still low I'm not going to say I have a high bump yet in correlation to the Wives tales lol. Anyone else in the same boat?

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Me! I too am very fit and started showing at 14 weeks! My bump is very high too so much so that it's causing me to have wicked heartburn [emoji20]. My doctor said it has to do where the baby implanted. My baby implanted high up in my uterus so as it has gotten bigger, everything is positioned higher. It's just coincidental that I'm having a girl. I haven't gained much weight- only 2-3lbs at 17 weeks so that isn't a contributing factor. I don't believe much in the OWTs. It's strange the heartbeat one was true for me, but my BF has 3 girls and her only son had the highest heartbeat all throughout her pregnancy.



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Please God ye can relax in two weeks when ye get the results back! And you can start to enjoy the remainder of your pregnancy xx

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At 11-12 weeks, even though the baby is tiny my doctor says the uterus is about the size of a grapefruit. I can definitely see how that would be a visible difference especially for someone who is quite thin.

Even if the baby is tiny, the uterus is bigger and by 12 weeks it is positioned above the pelvic bones. I'm showing, but because I have a good layer of fat there, it just looks like I've put on some tummy weight lol. For those of you familiar with a B shaped belly, the B is more like a D now :) That's how I know I'm popping out a bit.

Sex drive is coming back round here lol. Still picky with foods, but nausea is subsiding which is great!

LadyTara...how are you doing dear?


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Yes, LadyTara, check in with us. :hug2: