Mommy: seriously the things our DH say. They dont think about our feelings when they say things like that and they dont even know what they did wrong. grrr :fight:
Biggg hug! just ignore him :D
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Mommy: seriously the things our DH say. They dont think about our feelings when they say things like that and they dont even know what they did wrong. grrr :fight:
Biggg hug! just ignore him :D
Hugs abc. I went through that with my last angel baby. It lingered on from May to July before they knew a definitive answer, and then I opted for my body to miscarry natural. My body is dumb and wouldn't so by September I gave into a dnc. I was so hopeful with that baby just wanted to give it a chance!
I pray the outcome is completely different for you and this pregnancy is viable!
Thanks shinay! He was so clueless!
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ABC - HUGE hugs!!! So sorry you are still in limbo. I was there at the beginning of this pregnancy, so anything is possible. So sorry it is looking so bad right now. :(
My mum has come to visit so just a quick post and I promise to come back tonight!
Abc I'm so sorry your result wasn't better [emoji853] hope you're ok xxoo
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Thanks all - feeling pretty down tonight. Just wish we knew what is going on.
Mommy - you will get your rainbow baby! We all will! Don't give up hope!
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I hate all this waiting it's not fair ABC :(
Yes definitely ignore DH mommy, they just don't understand how we feel and how our emotions work!
ABC I'm sorry your numbers aren't what they should be. I'm praying everything works out for you and that you are okay. The waiting is the worst. Sending hugs.
Pbn, Id love to be that relaxed about it all but I need to know everything! I'm such a control freak [emoji23][emoji23][emoji23] I'm going to have to ease up on the opks as I've run out but will prob keep temping.
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Huge hugs ABC, not knowing is just horrible. I have everything crossed for a sticky bean for you.
Mommy - men are totally clueless to our feelings, you will get your rainbow baby and I have everything crossed for it to be soon.
Well I was so undecided on wether to bd last night or tonight so we decided to split the difference and dtd this morning...lol!
I sure hope we see some more bfp's this month :fx:
I hope so too! Although I can see me being the only one left in the tww in months to come! :( Dh says he doesn't feel any different since starting the hcg. I hope I didn't get fake stuff :/
Thanks Abc! So many hugs!
I know it's hurtful being in limbo, trying to be hopeful and you should be until you know a definite answer!
Mummy, so true! Hope you are doing okay!
Thanks happylea!
Fx this is your cycle!!
Babybeaublue 🤞🏻[emoji1317] soon!
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Mommy2apples I've only just read what your dh said about af coming. What a stupid thing to say!!![emoji34] Men can be so dense sometimes!!! Hope you're feeling better this morning and your rainbow baby is on its way, I just know it!!!!
Shinay I also don't think dh's diet will affect your sway overly much but agree with the others about running it past atomic. Let us know once you've created a thread so I can sub in [emoji6]
Abc more hugs your way xxoo
Happylea yay for morning attempt [emoji3] so you'll expect to be 1dpo tomorrow?
Babybeaublue do you usually get spotting before af? Just checking as don't see it recorded in last cycles chart?
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Mummy2boys yep I totally get that (control thing) [emoji6]
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Babybeablue - I have everything crossed for you getting a bfp, how long has your dh been taking the meds now? Stay positive I'm sure they will be the real deal but buying off the net I see why you could be concerned...big hugs xxx
Pbn - thank you, yes I expect to be 1dpo tomorrow x
I'm going to try not to be the crazy early testing lady this month :poas:
Thanks pbn! I do feel better. Really hoping he's wrong about this cycle and then once I get an ultrasound done of a healthy hb I'll put it in his face. Lol but don't plan on telling him next week if I do get a positive!
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Mommy there's nothing quite like proving them wrong :bigsmile:
:fingers: for you x
Thanks Happylea! ❤️
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Thanks happy:) he's only been taking it 2 weeks so haven't even had an attempt with him on it. Although it takes 72 days for sperm production so I could be looking at Nov/Dec time before any chance of bfp
Pbn I had spotting the morning of AF last month and for 2 days before AF the previous cycle but never before. In had it very very light last night and the same today. I'm just waiting for AF cos my back is still sore, mostly when I walk. Is spotting normal with temp still being high? I keep thinking it's gonna drop like a stone in the morning:/
Sorry abc. I've been through chemical pregnancies twice before and they hurt. Hoping you get answers soon.
As for me.. it's cd10 for me today. Had my first apt this morning at my fertility clinic and I have no follicles growing. So after a terrible experience of a second trimester miscarrage and then months of waiting to finally get my period then to go on a round of Clomid which was emotionally difficult...
I prob won't even get a chance this cycle. I balled at the clinic today. I've never felt so alone before in my life.
Dr said to come back in 2 days and if no eggs growing we might just cancel the cycle and start provera (period inducing pill) again.
Great times over here.
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Robin I'm so sorry, you just arnt getting a break. It's not fair. Hopefully everything will turnaround and you'll have better luck. Maybe everything will fall into place at just the right time. I know it shouldn't be so hard and you want it to happen now tho. :hug2:
Oh Robin (((HUGS))) Praying that things will change in the next few days for you!
Robin, I'm so sorry you are being put through all of this! It's so unfair! I sure hope that a couple of days is all that is needed for there to be any follicles.
Is there any talk of switching medication? It sounds like you may not have responded to the Clomid. I would definitely ask about developing a new protocol.
I just want to give you a great big hug!
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Hugs robin! Prayers for changes soon!
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They play it very conservative here. I asked today about uping the Clomid next cycle but she said no to that. They said that most women who have late miscrarrages or stillbirths experience a later cycle or antiovilitory cycle the first one after. They seem to think I'll grow between now and the next visit.Quote:
Originally Posted by XXforhubby
All I know is I actually don't require Clomid.. my cycles are always 29 days with ovulation at 14dpo. Prob why they hesitate to up my dosage etc.
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Robin, I'm so sorry! BIG HUGS!!!! When do you go back in? I'm hopeful for you that it will be good news. Please keep us posted.
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Robin - Ugh, so sorry you're going through this! So frustrating I'm sure. Vent here whenever you need - we support you!!
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ETA temps still above coverline? Has this happened to anyone else?
Robin I'm sorry [emoji853] really hoping you hear better news at next appt.
Babybeaublue sorry af arrived [emoji853] and yes most times my temps wouldn't drop until af was almost over. Its fairly common [emoji53]
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Ok thanks pbn
I looked back at some of my old charts and I never got AF until temps dropped below coverline. I was expecting her tomorrow based on today's temp. Really can't see me getting pregnant for a while if at all.
Sorry Babybeau :( Thinking of you.
So sadly I think I'm now officially miscarrying. I'm spotting increasing amounts of pink/red & am increasingly cramping. I think this is it :( I started progesterone capsules yesterday but either it was too late or it wouldn't have helped anyways. Given my hcg numbers my guess is it wouldn't have mattered no matter what.
(((Huge Hugs))) ABC. I'm sorry this is happening to you. Know we are all here for you.
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Oh ABC I'm so sorry. It's such a hard thing to go through emotionally and so completely heart breaking. Talk to us any time you need to. Lots of love x
I'm so sorry Abc. Big hugs. We are here for you xxoo
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So sorry abc [emoji17]prayers for your healing and here for you anytime you need to talk. No one should ever have to bare that pain.
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So sorry ABC. Sending hugs, please look after yourself as much as possible. Thinking of you
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So sorry ABC! Big hugs....
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Thank you friends. I really appreciate you all and this space for the support and encouragement.
My doctor is the doc on call this weekend. I'm wondering if I should call him tomorrow and tell him what's going on? Do I need to be "checked out" after a miscarriage this early? There is still no big gush or flow but the bleeding and cramping have become more consistent now. I guess as it's before 5 weeks it's technically a chemical? Which is weird as I feel like I've already known about the pregnancy for weeks now with all the stress and emotions of just the past week :(
Abc no need to go to your doc. It should be like a normal or heavy period initially but you may experience more/stronger cramps than normal. You've stopped the progesterone capsules now right? Big hugs xxoo
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Thinking of you abc x
So sorry ABC sending you big hugs, take care of yourself. Thinking if you xxx
I am so sorry abc. We are here for you!
Went in for my cd12 apt today and wouldn't you know it... I have a 13mm folicale/egg developing!! Last time I got pregnant I triggered at 17mm so I'm close! Prob another few days out from ovulation.
Also my lining was 12mm thick! Went up by 2mm. I'm shocked but now feeling so hopeful!
Let's hope this keeps up!
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