Congratulations 3boys on your newest little man. I understand what you are going through, I've been there three times before and am pretty certain this babe is a boy too. Take your time to come to terms and big hugs.
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Congratulations 3boys on your newest little man. I understand what you are going through, I've been there three times before and am pretty certain this babe is a boy too. Take your time to come to terms and big hugs.
Thank you all so much for such lovely comments and support. I honestly don't know what I would do without you. The doctor told me he was 95% sure it was a male foetus, he even wrote it on my report. I have lots of pictures and the nub sticks straight up in the air. This man is very good and specialises in sexing early so I have no reaso to doubt him. I will post a picture tomorrow. Right now my eyes are puffy from crying (I feel awful for being so upset) and I need to sleep. xxx
Awww 3boys that makes me so sad that you are feeling so down but you know what honey...you should not feel awful for being upset. You know we are human and we have feelings for a reason. Honestly I think anyone would be just a bit disappointed after having 3 of any gender to find out they were having a fourth of the same gender. And yes we can say that we are thrilled that the baby is healthy and blessed to even be able to have another (in my case especially) but we still have those disappointing feelings. So take all the time you need to come to terms with the news and when you are ready to post your pictures we will be right here waiting! Hugs and Kisses!
3boys, please don't beat yourself up for how you're feeling. You're dealing with enough right now without being unkind to yourself. Any one of us in your shoes would feel the same way, and you'd be nothing but supportive. I think all of us were collectively holding our breath today and crossing our fingers for you, sorry you didn't hear what you were so hoping for. When you're able to, I bet we'd all love to ooooooh and aaaaahhhh over your gorgeous new baby. Thinking of you while you work through your feelings.
3boys, please be easy on yourself, and don't be upset with yourself for being upset (if that makes any sense). Give yourself permission to be sad and cry and let it out. I know you will love your new little man with all your heart, but I definitely understand how you are feeling right now. *Big hugs!*
Had my 15 week doctor's appt today. Finally got the hear the heart beat for the first time. As soon as she touched the doppler to my tummy she found it lol that is why I can feel baby so early she said! She's popped right out!!! The heart beat was 147. So crossing fingers that OWT is super debunked ;) haha. So I have the 3D ultrasound Jan 3rd at 18+3, then Jan 10th my regular hospital scan at 19+3 so hopefully both techs say the same gender!! Hope everyone else is feeling well and doing great!
I'm still very sick. Can get in to see my doctor until tomorrow morning. Seems they are very booked out due to Christmas. I just lay in the fetal position most of every day and cry and hug my toddler with him watching cartoons to keep him busy or he potters around the house because I have no energy to do anything with him and am too sick. My big boys come home tonight after spending time with relatives over the holidays and then they will want me to do all kinds of thing (active) with them and I won't be able to. Poor kids.
Ha, that is an odd one, a little disturbing!
I was gazing at our fruit bowl this morning at breakfast and remembered I had a dream we had an orange tree in our garden... That's as crazy as mine are getting currently! However I did wake up the night before thinking I heard someone at the door, might have been a dream..
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3Boys - sorry you didn't hear your desired, and that you feel low. It's such a hard emotion to come to terms with. That ultrasound image you posted is so damn cute though. Hope you cope ok in the next while.
Did you find out the gender at 12 wks+? Was it an ultrasound or? Big hugs XX