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Thank you so, so much for your support and kind words ladies. I really, really appreciate it xxx
Kitkat, hubby is tired all the time anyway. He works for himself so, is always busy. He does also feel pressured for the bd as well. I'm kicking myself for making him feel pressured. It wasn't intentionally but I felt he needed to know it was coming up because we bd so rarely.
Daisymoo, this is our first month of trying. I'm nervous the further we get along without a bfp the more disheartened hubby will feel.
I will keep up with everything I'm doing and let dh lead. That's all I can think of.
Fingers crossed for you Rosie :)
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aww thanks Daisy! I'd like to think you are right! I hope we all get our DG. Dh and I had a moment of silence before BDing. We spoke to our daughter to let her know how much she is wanted and loved already. I have also wrote her name on several things...giving her a sign. I am truly hoping I fall pregnant right away. I just had a feeling yesterday and then when I didn't get my positive I thought maybe my feelings were off but then there it was! 10:30 pm out of nowhere. This has to be it!
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rosie please eat you are making me nervous, 20 hours is a long time x
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Do not do both the hurry up FR (the two releases back to back) and the daily release. It's too much. do one or the other, but not both.
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it is impossible for me to keep up with the support threads, so if you guys all have certain concerns can you please just start a thread in the forum and ask? I sometimes find that bad info gets spread in the support threads but it is just not possible for me to keep up with them.
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Elise I would not make another attempt. You should still have sperm inside from your original attempt. If it ends up being a few days from now instead of tomorrow than you could consider another BD.
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Boysway my dh went through something similar a few years back. He's also self employed. But basically he was so tired and depressed a lot and had no interest in bd for months on end. Eventually he went to the doc who said it is just something that men can go through at some stage in their lives. My dh was around 40 at the time. So hopefully your dh will feel better once the pressure is off. And I bet it'll be before you know it.
Elise the general rule is bd once at positive opk or else bd every four days. So it depends on how far away you are from positive. Nearly positive could be 2 or 3 days yet. Have another attempt four days from your last attempt if you don't get positive opk today. If you get a positive tomorrow I think I would attempt as you may not ovulate for 24/36 hours from that and the spermies from your last attempt might be gone by then.
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Oh no I am sorry boysway. Maybe you just shouldn't tell him. Dh told me not to tell him when we will be trying, just tell him when I get a bfp, he doesn't like worrying about anything. All he knows is that he needs to take his OLE (which he is horrible at). Like daisy said, wake him up "gently" or "ease" him into it after a shower.
Rosie, I can't do 16hrs, I will vomit (sorry gross I know) but I can do 14. Did you drink a whole bottle of wine or just a glass? Personally if it was just a glass, I wouldnt worry about it. If it was the whole bottle I would count it.
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It was actually only a half glass..it was soo gross!!! haha I will be drinking a different wine tonight.
I agree boysway. Maybe just take the pressure off and just give him a nice massage and really get him turned on. Do something nice for him. Take him by surprise.
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Yay for attempt rosie!! I hope you get get a pink sticky bean for your first try! Lol I was rushing trying to read and hurry over to the lab (at work) typed up the post before and didn't hit post. After reading the comments I was like oh yea that is an attempt!! lol
