April/May/June 14 swayers...

Mumofsix I am sure that you are a great mom! Especially after that story of how well behaved you ds was at that party. When my boys (well the youngest) is driving me up a wall I try to remember that kids have bad days too, and some times that's just it, he is having a bad day and unlike us adults, they act like children when things are bothering them (see what I did there lol) anyway, sweetie I really wish I could make you feel better! I would, I hope your psi and bleeding subsides soon, even if you aren't ready to ttc right away again

Okay ladies it's 1am here and I am wide awake. Due to my lack of sleep last night I have been up for almost 24hrs. And dh wants to go fishing first thing in the morning, I want to go to the zoo, so apparently we are going fishing, then home to shower, then to the zoo. Lord I am going to be beat! Sn: I have been on the hunt for an oil diffuser and lavender oil, on my 2 1/2 hr grocery shopping trip, I found one in Walmart!!! Excited yes I am, the ceiling fan is on, lavender in the room and some alcoholic beverage I bought from walmart. If only it was ttc time! Oh I finished my paper at midnight, don't know how good I did since I was/am going off 3 hrs of sleep from last night. Yep I am officially into rambling mode! So you tube videos or pet rescue saga it is.... Good night ladies

Boysway sounds like you have a great attitude and lots of patience to cope with DH and his depression.
Rosie congrats!! First attempt down Xx
Mumofsix you have been through ALOT !!! Be kind to yourself I agree with boysway sounds like it was not a complete m/c my two cents feel free to ignore me!! Is relax on the diet for a wee bit your body needs some nourishment and it will help improve your energy levels. You sound like a fantastic mum who has just gone through alot.big hugs xxxxx

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Marriedmum enjoy your crazy day!! Sounds fun!! Drink lots of coffee xx

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Thanks boysway, I do need a hug! 👍

And marriedmom, you're so right and compared to some other kids I know our kids aren't really being that bad! They're just being loud and busy so aren't listening and are wanting to run off to play so aren't putting the bread away after making a sandwich etc...And DS2 set up a Facebook account without asking first and were having some "teen troubles" with DS1. All mostly small I know but when they're usually so good, being a "little painful" becomes a big pain cause were not used to it! 😕 And I think they're sick of being with each other 24/7... Can't wait til school goes back! 😊

It doesn't help that DH decided to paint the house in the most disorderly manner!! 😬

DS1 has just gone out for a ride with DH, DS2-5 are sitting down playing minecraft together and DS6 is cuddling up to me between playing with his toys. And he just walked up to his brothers and said "hi guys" (he is almost 2) and it was so cute. 💜💜

They drive me nuts then 10mins later they melt my heart! Little buggers!! 😉

I think part of not knowing if I want to TTC again now is cause I am so scared of going through this again or some of the things others on here have had to go through lately and I also don't want to deal with all the crap from family when they find out, especially after going through this loss, I just wouldn't want to hear their crap about another baby. 😞

I did read on here one day though that "you don't regret the children you do have, only the ones you didn't" and that thought plays on my mind. DH is keen to try again (which is funny cause he was the one who said no more kids and I had to try to convince) and he is back on his supps and drinking soy and cutting out meat, so I guess we will see how I go.

Enjoy your day fishing and at the zoo! Hope you get some sleep too. 😴

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Boysway sounds like you have a great attitude and lots of patience to cope with DH and his depression.
Rosie congrats!! First attempt down Xx
Mumofsix you have been through ALOT !!! Be kind to yourself I agree with boysway sounds like it was not a complete m/c my two cents feel free to ignore me!! Is relax on the diet for a wee bit your body needs some nourishment and it will help improve your energy levels. You sound like a fantastic mum who has just gone through alot.big hugs xxxxx

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Thanks kitkat! 😊💜

Your boys sound so delightful mumofsix xxxx

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Oh Mumofsix , I have been thinking of you. I'm so sorry you are still in pain and have bleeding etc... I hope that you will soon get answers and closure on this traumatic event of your life. Be really insistent with the doctors they new to be thorough.
As for TTC, maybe you need a little break - let your body and mind heal. It's not until your body will b healed that you will start to feel like yourself again. I think exercising is maybe too early. Also, my advice would be to gay enough nutrition to help your body cope and heal. Food is the most powerful medicine at cell levels (I'm talking good healthy nutrients) - a little more green leafy veggies and fruits won't harm your sway. Above all allow yourself the right to feel how you feel. Nurture your Self and love our Self. You are a great mum don't doubt that (just the fact that you question it proves you are!).

I don't think it's my monh either - still no AF - plus I won't let my DH near me so that won't help lol. Like you I feel scared in case it happens again but we have to remain positive. Im thinking of you and sending you Big hugs And love xxxx

La vie what amazing support and advice xxx

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Hi ladies!
I am glad I found you :) I am currently CD11. Waiting patiently for Ovulation. I have been on LE for a while now but this will be our first attempt for a DD. I have not got a +OPK yet and my maybe baby is still pebbly. I don't temp because my sleep is not consistent enough and I'm scared that in going to miss my surge. I wish everyone the best of luck x