Sorry pbn but I'm so glad your giving it another month! [emoji1360]
Everything crossed for you momamia I will miss you if you go so hopefully you get a gorgeous BFP and can stay!!
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Sorry pbn but I'm so glad your giving it another month! [emoji1360]
Everything crossed for you momamia I will miss you if you go so hopefully you get a gorgeous BFP and can stay!!
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Thanks magical!!! :) I'll miss you too!
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I really hope this cycle is it for you Pbn3 and Momamia. I took a long break from TTC after my loss in 2012 bc of how badly it upset me emotionally. Long term TTC is no fun at all.
Thanks for your help everyone this is my last try I too can't put myself or the other half through anymore of the financial and emotional implications. It's just too hard, I was depressed for about three months after the last time and I have to accept its not worth the cost of my marriage. I am grateful for the two gifts in my beautiful boys I have been given some people don't even get that chance. I want so much to have a daughter and have the same relationship I have with my mum but if it turns out its a bfn... As soul destroying as that will be I have to try to handle it better than last time for the sake of my family . I completely understand how you all feel sometimes it feels like you're chasing that impossible dream that's just tantalisingly out of reach and no matter how hard you try and grab onto it, you never quite get there. I wish you all the luck in the world and I hope you get the result you want. I'm getting all emotional I'm sure it's the hormones!!!!!! Will keep you posted and take another photo of the test tomorrow. I can't let myself believe it could have worked this time it's strange to be half hopeful and half terrified that you will end up disappointed. Love to you all xxx
No, it really isn't fun. It really sucks. I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy.Quote:
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Your story really touched me I hope and pray that this time just before you give up that you get that big fat positive you deserve it after all the heartache lol x
Ladies I'm keeping my gp appointment as I want to touch base with her anyway. She did my health check up early last year (including bw to confirm ovulation) before we started ttc. She was on holidays when I had my mc so I'm assuming she knows nothing of it. I plan on discussing smep with her and seeing if there's anything else she can recommend to boost my chances. Can anyone think of anything I should ask? Should I be asking fsh for and amh bw? Problem is I'll be on cd4 when I see her and I think its suppose to be done cd3. Also do you all think smep is my best chance? I cant help but be worried that so many bd's in a row will only deplete dh's sperm supply right when it counts. For those that are unfamiliar with smep - dtd every 2nd day starting at cd8. At pos opk dtd three days in a row, skip a day then dtd again. I'm worried because what if I get a pos opk cd13? That means we'd have dtd cd12, then have to do cd13, cd14 and cd15. I would likely o cd14 in this scenario. Thoughts anyone?
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Sorry pbn :( only fsh has to be done cd3 but cd4 is probably close enough, sometimes cd3 falls on a Sunday so the test would have to get done either side then as most places aren't open.
She should also check LH and estrogen but the gp will know the standard bloods to do. Has your DH ever been tested?
Hi Pbn, just wanted to say sorry & throw my 2 cents in here for what its worth! I had 4 losses back to back all around 7 weeks, but prior to that I had a few chemicals too. I also got really faint pos tests that slowly faded and then went on to get af. I think you are getting pregnant but its not sticking. I researched and started using progesterone cream 2x a day at ovulation and also (baby aspirin at bfp) I believe I needed the aspirin, but I think for you the progesterone cream may be worth a try? Wray White is the lady I got my info from her web site is progesterone therapy.com she was amazingly helpful to me and really knowledgeable about it. My ob told me my age was the reason for my miscarriages.... But my 2 yr boy says otherwise! I'm 44 :) Good luck with whatever you decide!
Thanks Purple and no he hasn't. I wouldn't even go there with him - I'll be extremely lucky if he agrees to one more go. One last thing and sorry for way tmi but I have some large clots going on? My trans vag scan showed no tissue after mc. Maybe I should also mention this?
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