It's another boy :( trying to hold back the tears. He's healthy which is the main thing. X
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It's another boy :( trying to hold back the tears. He's healthy which is the main thing. X
Aww hun, huge hugs I'm sure he'll be such a special little one and you'll fall in love as soon as you see him. Take all the time you need though and don't feel guilty for crying x
Oh retrolove1... I know no words can make you feel better now :(
But as you said he's healthy.thats what matters most. Its alright to grieve now. Hope you find peace. Im really sorry.
Sorry you are feeling sad and didnt hear pink but don't feel guilty. You are mourning not having a girl and that is totally different to not wanting and loving your new son. I bet he will be the perfect addition to your family when he arrives. Take care.
Congratulations on your little boy. I know how hard it is to hear it again when you're desperate for a girl. I was in your position almost 9 weeks ago & whilst it may not feel like it now I promise it does get easier. A brother is the best gift you can ever give to your ds. We have a thread running for opposites due this winter & you're more than welcome to join. The ladies are very supportive & understanding. Huge hugs x
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I'm sorry retro, I even don't know what to say. I know what you're going through right now, I'm there too. Apparently a third boy was meant for us, I still can't stop crying when I think I'll never have a girl, no matter where I am, I just can't help it. I don't understand god's plan for me, but I'm sure a boy it's the perfect fit for our family, I wish I could accept that as soon as possible. Hugs.:bighug:
Thank you so much ladies. I feel bad for just wanted to cry every time I think I will never have a daughter because I can't go through this again so this will be our last. I always saw myself with a daughter. Dreading telling family too, still no granddaughters. I didn't tell anyone about my scan today and I'm glad I didn't because I haven't been able to say much without crying. X
Please don't feel guilty for crying or feeling the way you're feeling!! I cried for days after I found out DS3 was a boy.. He's now 18 months and I thank God for him everyday. He has brought such joy to our lives!! Do what you need to do hun!! I know it's hard!!
Thank you so much. I know it will get easier. OH wants to go to his parents to tell them. I'm so worried that I will be able to tell they are disappointed and that will start me off again. X
So sorry you didn't get your dg. I saw your other post and your baby looks beautiful. It'll be okay. You have every right to cry and mourn the loss of not having a girl. You will love this little boy to bits though.