I'm up because I can't sleep-1.my DS3 has gotten super clingy. I think he's sensing the baby is coming. 2. I can't stay comfortable [emoji23][emoji23][emoji23]!
That brings me to your post, Butterfly. ABSOLUTELY it's time to give up one one attempt at positive opk since you've been TTCing for a year now! You may be like me and not ovulating until 36-48 hours after your positive opk. I know they say sperm can last up to 5 days, blah, blah, blah, but my experience is this does not happen very often.
I would keep doing your positive opks. Once AF ends, BD E4D until you get to CD22. I would even consider having another attempt once you get your positive opk and then resume E4D.
E4D works like this: Attempt on Monday and then attempt on Thursday, then on Sunday, etc. If you get your opk say on Wednesday, you would attempt then and have another attempt on Saturday.
It's time to get you pregnant girl! Yes you can still get a girl this way! Look at my sway- my chart should be attached in my signature. I was doing opks, but my DH wasn't fully on board until my BFP cycle. I had to BD whenever he wanted, which worked out to be E4D that cycle.
Keep up the diet, stop any lubes (unless you need a bit to make BDing comfortable), no jump and dump (if you have to keep it wait at least 15-30min).
We will be here to support you! And damnit, we WILL get you pregnant [emoji6]!!
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