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Originally Posted by Kari
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The questionnaires are here-Quote:
Originally Posted by Kari
https://genderdreaming.com/forum/misc.php?do=forms
Thank you v much!
I have your questionnaires Kari and will get to work ASAP on your plan.Quote:
Originally Posted by Kari
That’s very kind, thank you!
Hello! I hope you are well! I know you are busy! I was just wondering when I can expect to receive my plan? Thank you in advance!
It takes me 7-10 days to do the plans so it should be coming your way very soon. If you want me to send you the original immediately upon completion instead of having to wait another day or two for it to be posted please message me your email and I'll send it to you when I send it in to tech support to be reformatted.
Hi Atomic
Thank you for this! I have private messaged you my email! Many thanks!
I am interested in a sway plan. Are these confidential? Also what type of medical information would you need to start a plan?
Yes, they're totally confidential, only you and I (and the lady who posts the plans for me, although she never reads them) can see the plan and the coaching forum.
I only need the barest medical information - whatever would affect trying to conceive. You don't have to share anything with me that you are less than comfortable with. :)
Hi, I want to thank everyone for their hard work in this website. I've been reading some of the comments and I the information shared here is very informative and interesting. I want to ask a question, but since I am new in this thread thing please forgive me if I wrote in the wrong one. I am gluten free and they saying how important is the morning breakfast. I am in Gluten Free diet and I don't know if my cereal counts? I also want to ask about the plan you can purchase and I don't see the prices. I want to know how much Potassium and Sodium should I take for the boy sway. Thank you
P.S. I try to post this again in a new thread if I succeed lol
Yes yes you can do a boy sway gluten free (and it will only help, especially if you got your girls while eating gluten since you were not absorbing all your nutrients due to the gluten in your diet)
All cereal counts even if gluten free. In fact some of the gluten free oat cereals are excellent for blue.
The prices for sway plans are here: https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/payments.php
Potassium - you should try to get 4000 mg or more potassium for a boy but it's best to get that through diet and not supplements. Supplements of potassium may not be safe and are not as good for your sway as lots of healthy foods.
Sodium - we have not found that eating tons of sodium helps get boys (many of our opposites were in people eating a lot of sodium). But if you want to, keep it to 4000 mg max and do not do those massive amounts of sodium intake as recommended by some sources. Those have NEVER been proven to sway.
I have a write up I'll share about why sodium can't be swaying:
Biologically:
The body keeps the levels of sodium, potassium, calcium and magnesium in pretty tight regulation. It doesn't "like" or "want" to have lower than normal levels and it takes steps to keep that level very regular, either by excreting and/or storing the excess (yes, your body is able to store sodium for future use, just as it can store calcium and magnesium as well) or if you aren't getting enough, it relelases its stores and becomes more efficient at extracting sodium from the foods that you eat and the water you drink. So even though you may eat less sodium, your body simply takes steps to counteract that.
Low sodium levels are unusual and/or temporary (such as severe dehydration) and it's only in people who have serious health issues or are on medication that it is even POSSIBLE. Sodium - blood: MedlinePlus Medical Encyclopedia Back in the early days of the site, we had a few people (including a medical doctor) try to follow the FGD and had their blood levels of sodium, cal, mag, and potassium tested before and after doing a strict FGD for 6 weeks and their levels were virtually identical, all within normal range, before and after doing the FGD for 6 weeks, and the doctor's sodium level actually went UP because her body just got better at extracting sodium from food and water. (BTW she gave up FGD based on that info and did indeed get a girl on LE Diet).
Additionally, low sodium diet cannot be swaying pink because people of sub-Saharan African descent all carry a gene that causes them to have higher levels of sodium in their blood****** than people of other ethnic heritages (possibly as a defense against dehydration, malaria, or both) and yet they have the highest % of girls conceived of any ethnic group (102 boys for every 100 girls versus 105/106 for every 100 girls for other ethnicities) and this has stayed consistent even as they have moved out of Africa and into other parts of the globe. And because of this it is VERY harmful for people who have this ethnic heritage to eat that high sodium blue sway diet. It can kill, if not now, then in the future.
Plus, potassium, which is supposed to be eaten in high amounts while swaying blue, actually undoes the effects of sodium. So it really makes no sense that sodium and potassium should be taken together for swaying and the entire concept has no real biological support. This is all based on a study done in water animals that don't even reproduce the way humans do and can actually switch from male to female when you dump sodium into their tank. It does not and never has made any sense to apply this to humans.
Historically:
Humans and in fact ALL mammals have an insatiable palate for salt. Whenever they find salt, they eat it in huge quantities and virtually all cultures across the globe use tons of the stuff in food preservation and condiments and this has been true for at least dating back thousands of years, yet the gender ratio stays at about 50-50 regardless. Archaologists recently uncovered a salt mine in China dating back to 6000 BC (that's 8000 years ago). There was NEVER a time where humans were having disproportionate numbers of male and female offspring over the long term - not when we were cavemen eating not as much sodium, not in ancient China, and not today. It is VERY likely that the altered gender ratio in China that the FGD book used as "proof" that sodium sways blue, was NOT due to sodium whatsoever but was the result of female infanticide because we now know for a fact that is occurring there today.
Humans are eating more salt than ever before and yet the gender ratio is actually FALLING with more girls conceived than they were even 50 years ago.
Thank you for your quick response. It took me an hour to find it lol. I want to purchase the TTC a Boy Bundle- Personalized Gender Swaying Plan and Coaching Service PLUS 21-day Meal Plan. I am curious about the statistics on this plan girls vs. boys babies. I understand that it will take at least a week before I get the plan. Do I need blood work and a doctor visit to check anything for the questioner or no need.
No I just need your questionnaire. I am actually having a slow time right now so will be able to get your plan back to you more quickly than that :bluecheer:
We have about 68% for the overall site for blue with about 220 people reporting (pink sways are at 69% so I think about 70% is a good expectation). I prefer to use the overall success rates because it is more people overall and gives you a better expectation. Plus, many of the custom swayers have health issues or other situations that actually make swaying harder for them, not easier, so they may have slightly lower success rates than what the average person can expect.
Thank you. I just purchased the plan. Just let me know what to do next. I am going out of town now DH driving so let me know what form should I submit since I have my hands free.
the questionnaires are here https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/misc.php?do=forms I've messaged someone to activate the plan for you and I hope they get it active right away, sometimes it can take a short time.
Ok it's all good to go - just follow that link and as soon as I get your questionnaires I can make your plan. :)
I think I posted my first post in the wrong forum- and i just posted this and it got deleted? But i am not social medica/forum savy, and i am so confused. here is my origional post:
Hi there-
so my DH and i have spent the last 4 hours trying to understand this forum, and it is so confusing! I feel very overwhelmed. I did buy the personalized plan, and I know I need to wait to recieve it for more to make sense, But we are just so lost!
We have 4 boys- 3 of which have special needs, and I honestly dont have time to sift though it all, I mean no offence when I ask this, but will the plan have everything laid out pretty clear, so that I may just print it out and be able to hang it on my fridge or something?
question 2- With the diet and "Meal plan" does this include shopping list of things that are good to eat? With all my boys individual needs, i think it will be extremely hard to "Count carbs" and all of those things that ive read so far.
question 3- because DH is 110% on board with swaying, will food ideas/suppliments and all of that be included for him as well? We are trying to do everything possible, we just want to start the diet now.
question 4- how to i access the "coaching"? and is that where i can personal message about questions I have?
we are excited to figure all this out and ttc our dream princess!
thanks!
I really want to purchase a plan...but curious how long the process takes??
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I don't think it got deleted, I just replied to it in another spot.Quote:
Originally Posted by 4boysdreamingpinkkk
To find your old posts more easily, go to the top of the page where there's a bar at the top. It says "Home, the Forums, Blogs, and then there's a clickable spot called "My Posts". Click "My posts" and it will give you some options - my threads and my posts. "My threads" will take you to threads you actually started, "my posts" will take you to posts where you replied to someone else's thread. Then you'll be able to go back and find the stuff you posted on. You can also click on your own user name and it will give you options to read your own posts (or other people's names and you can read their posts as well!
It usually takes 7-10 days but I've had a slow couple weeks and can get a plan back to you very quickly if you need me to.Quote:
Originally Posted by Leos.mema
Or just to make it easier, you can follow this link to see my response to your original post. https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum...tml#post994285Quote:
Originally Posted by 4boysdreamingpinkkk
What are the e books? If I get the 6 month plan, does that include those private forums? Thank you!Quote:
Originally Posted by atomic sagebrush
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The e-books are just a few books I wrote. One on diet, one on using OPK and understanding the menstrual cycle, and then one on timing.
The coaching forum comes with the plan. The Dream Member forums are separate.
Ok purchased my plan. I can’t seem to find the questionnaire. Super sorry! I have no idea what I’m doing.Quote:
Originally Posted by atomic sagebrush
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The questionnaire is here: https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/misc.php?do=forms
I have your questionnaires! :)
I have your questionnaires! :)
Yay!!! I forgot to mention I’m taking the Juice Plus Omegas. Is there a way to add that? Thank you for all your help!!!Quote:
Originally Posted by atomic sagebrush
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I would have you wean off those anyway. Those would tend to be more boy-friendly. Don't drop them suddenly, just gradually space doses further and further out till down to one per week, then you can drop them.
Hi, I purchased a personalized plan two weeks ago and completed the questionnaires. I’m not sure if they have been completed yet or not, but I haven’t been able to find them on my account. Thanks!
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Hi M and T - it's here: https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum...-ttc-girl.html
I forgot to mention when I did my questionnaire that I sometimes take Trazadone to help me sleep. I have awful insomnia! Can't wait to read the plan :-)
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Thanks!
Sorry if this isn't the right place to post...I could use your help.
I have adrenal fatigue although it had been under control for around a year with diet and lifestyle.
Since doing the girl sway I can feel my body getting weak. I've lost 13 lbs sticking to the girl diet in around 3 months. Which is a quite a bit for me....I don't have much to lose...and I cheat for one week every month...usually right before my period [emoji849]
Obviously I know if I let me body crash I won't get pregnant and won't be able to sustain a pregnancy if I did, but I want a girl so bad... I could use some advise on strong gender sway that doesn't contain so much of the diet....if there is such a thing?
Any help would be appreciated. I had hoped I would just get pregnant this month and then not have to worry about it but BFN this morning.
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Just keep to the general principles of the diet - lower protein, lower fat, more fat from vegetable sources vs. animal sources, eating less highly fortified foods and prenatals. In short, just do your best, but relax and compromise on the thigs you feel are the most important.
Hi atomic I purchased a plan last Saturday just wondering how much longer will I have to wait to get the plan? Is it yourself that does the plan ? Thanks x
It's been 2 weeks since I completed the questionnaire.... atomic is looking into it for me as she said it should be up now :( I hope it comes up soon was hoping to make a start on it.asap x
Your plan is done and was sent in to be reformatted and posted (I don't do that part.) I'm always happy to send you guys the original, it's less fancy than the finished plan but has all the same info in it - just message me your email address and I'll email you the original version directly.Quote:
Originally Posted by Pink rose 76
Your plan was posted on the 6th Nell and you can access it here: https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum...-ttc-girl.htmlQuote:
Originally Posted by Nell_
Thank you atomic I’ll send you my email address now thru PM x