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@He just had such little sperm and Rephresh right before, pretty sure my odds are low.
Same here. I think I'm okay with another boy and my husband is like me, a girl would be nice but a baby is awesome either way. I just feel bad for his mom who had four boys and wants a grand daughter.
I'm crying my eyes out...I'm bleeding. AF is never early :( does this mean I had a chemical and lost it? I never had a BFP but tons of..what I guess can be AF symptoms, but I never really experience them before. Guess it doesn't matter, chemical or AF...either way I'm bleeding, so I guess I'm out this month:( DH had to leave for work this morning as I'm bawling, said don't worry we will try again in Germany...I don't know why I expected that first attempt to work. For any of you on another attempt...does it always hurt this bad or am I just being a big baby? Guess the bright side is, my next attempt will be on holiday as originally planned and I will have been on the diet longer. Thanks for letting me vent again girls, your like my second family xoxo
So sorry :( I cried last month too!! I went in the bathroom to take a test and started bleeding! So I bawled.
The second we ovulate we picture a baby, Its like getting a dream crushed. There's always other months but nonetheless sad.
That is exactly what I did, woke early to poas and then I see red :( does this mean my LP is short now. AF comes like clock work so I'm so confused why she is early :(
Thank you for the welcome back!
I wouldn't jump to anything unless you know. I have a short lp.
Can relate to this! I am convinced IF I do get a BFP this month it's going to be another boy. My sway was pretty non existent this month. My diet consisted of many, many cheat days where I went over on calories. It was DS's 4th birthday so there was an abundance of birthday cake and cupcakes, party food, which spilled over in to leftovers the next day, several meals out with family to celebrate and takeaways too. Whilst I avoided the major no-no's as best as I could, my calories were probably WAY over, pushing me into boy territory. This basically ruined any chances of a sway this month, but I had to do it for my son and my family. I refuse to not be part of the celebrations as I always said I would never let TTC affect my DS - he would have questioned me if I wasn't joining in with celebrations!Quote:
Originally Posted by Cauliflower
I also stopped taking an antihistamine so all I have been taking is folic acid and the attempts, well. Let's not even go there. There were about 5 of them - all before O. OOOPS!
This month is very much the sway that wasn't!
Hey princess! That's how my first attempt went down, the sway that shouldn't have been...I even had a big O lol. But looks like no need to worry about how my sway went since AF has arrived...super early ugh :(
Yep, big O for me too! haha, ooops!Quote:
Originally Posted by GimmeaG
So sorry to hear that Gimmeag...is it definitely AF? Not an implantation bleed or something? How early is it :(
Haha ya the big O is a big no no lol and I totally was all about it;) unless implantation bleeding is heavy and bright red I'm assuming its AF. It's only 3days early but my cycle is like clockwork, every 28 days. Just kinda strange the one time I ttc I get an early AF...seems suspicious to me.Quote:
Originally Posted by Princess_G
Sounds like AF :(
I can definitely control having no o. But I doubt it is that big of a sway factor compared to other things.
I'm so sorry... I can completely understand this and have been there.Quote:
Originally Posted by GimmeaG
Right now, I'm not sure which is worse - being in this state, or getting yourself to the stage where you resign yourself to the fact it's 'never going to happen so whatever' which is where I'm almost at for now. Forever the pessimist, me... :rolleyes:
Thanks bunny! I'm trying not to be too upset. I'm trying to look at it this way...I will have more time to do better on diet, the attempt was originally suppose to be while on holiday in Germany, and I will avoid the big O at all cost. Just hate that I am doing one attempt again.Quote:
Originally Posted by bunnywabbit
It will get better for us all!!! It has to!
Now I'm scared my lp I'd too short. This is so frustrating!!
Im sorry gimmeag :( are you 100% sure when you ovulated, or is it def your lp shortening?
(Also, i got both my girls with a big o, but only one attempt 2 days before ov - not on purpose but early ov's and hubby at work lol!)
Good luck ladies, i think you will all have graduated by this time next month :D
Xxx
Sorry, becca. Have you tried discussing your concerns with atomic? It may help asking her for some advice and if she can offer any thoughts on what she thinks would help you xQuote:
Originally Posted by Becca.lms
I have a post on forum. I might give up Vitex.
If I don't get pregnant this time I think I might start B6.
Well I have the clear blue monitor and I felt the O pains next day after peak opk, do you think maybe it was a chemical and just never implanted so maybe I lost it? If it is a short LP does that mean it will be harder to concieve and implant??!! Is there anything I can take to make it longer if need be? I've just never had this problem before having it early :(Quote:
Originally Posted by Ribenaberry
It takes 10 days for a baby to implant. So anything under 10 days is a luteal phase defect.
I'm picking up some B6 tomorrow! Google it!
Becca- I think you need to start the B6 at a certain point in your cycle or it could mess things up. Maybe ask Atomic. I don't remember where I heard this but it's worth looking in to. :)
Ok, so AF started yesterday - proper fresh red flow. Seems to have disappeared this morning. Completely. Little confused, surely it can't be implantation, would be very late. Probably a very good case of spotting...
Still not going to tell myself I have a BFP until I actually see it for myself. If it hasn't restarted by Sunday going to retest...
FS!! i have no idea whats going on with my body, this is a test from yesterday, yet again another faint line (kinda destroyed it after ripping it apart :rofl: )
http://i577.photobucket.com/albums/s...sh02/004-1.jpg
Then todays test...........not even a hint of a line. Im assuming as my line eye is so good now that ive picking up on evaps more easily than ever before.
http://i577.photobucket.com/albums/s...sh02/005-2.jpg
Im either 8dpo or 6dpo depending when I ov'd but im getting more frustrated. im not going to test until Monday now as I only have digis and FR which I don't want to waste. I will get some more cheapies on Monday and try then. xxx
Crazylady, wait a few days before testing. I tested a lot first time, and then waited until 12 DPO. I know it is hard. But you get so frustrated and confused. Read a good book ;) try to think about something else. Easily said then done.
1 DPO for me....sigh
3dpo for me. Trying to focus my mind on other things as much as possible this month.
Was having a look online, for fun, at chinese gender predictors. For my DS it said girl! And, going by my dates this cycle, it says boy. Wonder if because my DS was wrong, this one would be wrong too?! Only joking, I don't believe in those at all!
I'm not starting B6 yet. Am next cycle.
I hope af doesn't come. I got my boys so easily and yes I'm getting ahead of myself but Ough.
Crazy I'd just wait a little longer. When is AF due?
Just pooping in to say hi at 10dpo! I've been going crazy planning our daughters 1st bday party for Sunday that the 2ww has been flying by. Really not thinking this is our month though. :( Day 7&8dpo I thought for sure I could be pregnant. Implantation dip followed by a 0.5 degree spike on chart and felt exhausted. When I say exhausted, I mean abnormally fatigued. Then yesterday, 9dpo, I felt great again. A day where I thought. Nope. Nothing. I'm out. My LP is always 11 days - af on day 12. I never get a positive before day 11 though. At least I will either get a BFP or AF on Sunday and won't have to wonder much longer. Really hoping for a positive but not getting my hopes up. :(
Ok....judging by my mood I guess I am "pooping" in? lol. Who else hates auto correct? :)
I wish I could poop. This diet takes no pity on your bowels.
I read it as popping. Ha. Good luck! Are you ttc a girl or boy happy?
Hello ladies!! Came in 2 report that I'm 8dpo today & I feel absolutely NO sign of being pregnant @ all :( no implantation bleeding, sore breast, nothing!! The ONLY things I feel are lower back ache & one day I had left sided cramping- that was it. AF due in 6 days so I'm just waiting. This is our 6th cycle & I'm honestly just so exhausted by now!!! I've been also very very sad & angry lately cuZ next month in sept would've been my due date month & I can't help
feeling that MC was a girl :((((((
I can't believe I didn't see this post sooner! I've been wondering around on here trying to figure out where to post! lol I'm in the 2ww and I'm going crazy! I'm on CD13.. we DTD CD11 and I swear I was ovulating on CD11 so I'm concerned! (CD11 is pretty early for me to O but I had the pains all day) I had been using Clearblue easy opk and ran out during this cycle, grabbed some at walmart and accidentally got the "advanced" opk.. it shows "High" fertility and "peak" fertility.. well I never got a "high" reading (I test twice a day), just showed up as "peak" 2 days sooner than I was expecting. Soooo.. I'm not really expecting a BFP this time, but I'm still hoping!!
Sorry dreaming :( I'd be depressed too.
Honestly worrying about not be able to conceive quick is making me depressed already that my heart goes out to anyone who it takes a while! It sucks!
My friend is getting pregnant next month and we were planning to be pregnant together.
Hey dreaming and menlc! I know it's hard to wait it out, just try to keep busy...I will keep fingers crossed. Becca your still in 2ww wait right? How long have you been ttc? Can you start dropping things from your sway if need be to help concieve?
Two months. And yes still in the 2ww. But if my lp is short it doesn't matter what i drop.
I'm hoping last month was right and I did ovulate on day 15. So even if I'm not pregnant hoping bad my period doesn't come Tues. I do not want to deal with a lpd.
DH and I have been planning our sway since Dec 2012.. and it seems like everyone around us is pg.. I can think of 5 girls off the top of my head.. it's very hard to hear everyone else's good news while TTC :( This is only my first cycle and I should be able to POAS Sept. 6 or 7.. what about everyone else? (Sorry if this info is posted somewhere! I'm not real good at navigating around here!!)
Sorry - what is lp/lpd?Quote:
Originally Posted by Becca.lms
Luteal Phase. The period from ovulation to period. Needs to be at least ten days to sustain a pregnancy. Anything lower is a Luteal phase defect.
oh wow I never knew that.. I started my pd 6 days early this month.. I'll have to look at my calendar and do the math...