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I can so relate to that feeling as well. When we lost our baby and then found out it was a girl I first felt relieve that we actually could get girls. But then I felt like I was punished in that cruel way (you know, guilt for wanting a girl when having two boys etc...) and I started feeling that maybe I am not meant to have a girl anyway. I still feel upset about having been so close to a daughter but still being so far away.Quote:
Originally Posted by MumofSix_TTCPink
Rosie I am so sorry hon I really feel for you. I cannot add to the kind and wise words already said by the others but just know that we are all here in support.
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Oh no!!!! This looks like it could turn positive very soon. This is normally the way it looks the day before I get a positive. I am only 7 days out from the 1st day I bled for my miscarriage. Is it normal to O this early after? What should I do...do I attempt? I just stopped bleeding yesterday.
It might just be fluctuating hormone levels after the mc? As it's negative anyway, why not wait and see whether it turns positive tomorrow?
It could be...but this is my 4th day of testing and they were all negative before. I am having some cramping and twinges and cm. This is nuts. I think since we won't be home tomorrow Dh and I will attempt tonight just in case. We don't want to miss our chance at catching the 1st egg! If it's not than Oh well I will keep testing and attempt again.
If you can't dtd tomorrow and you think it might be posituve tomorrow I would definitely dtd tonight It can't do any harm and you might just catch that egg Best of luck!
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Thanks daisy. They were so faint the last few days and now this...it totally caught me off guard. I assumed I wouldn't ovulate until next week some time. Maybe it's just a random fluctuation.
Yes if you can't do tomorrow definitely BD today - good luck
Rosie, I would also BD today if dh is away tomorrow. Good luck, fx you get to catch that first egg!
Good luck Rosie! Hopefully, this is it and you can catch the first egg!
Good luck, Rosie!!
You can always dtd today, then again in 4 days... still one attempt!
The test tonight was lighter..not sure what's up. I don't think it's safe for baby dancing yet either since I still have some periodic spotting. I don't know what to do now other than hold off and test again tomorrow.
Rosie, I sincerely hope the next egg that comes up is the one you catch and nets you a pinkie! I never got a +OPK. I just DTD when it got lighter. I might get in an attempt if I were you.
Hi guys!! I'm back after a little ttc break which was actually really good for me. Just concentrated on my My hubby and the kids. His appendix did rupture and he has had three weeks resting and is still not 100% yet still in a bit of pain so having more tests done. Stressful time! Hoping to attempt in June. Sorry for everyone feeling well and truly fed up!! I realized for me its not just the diet its the stress of ttc as well so if you have time up your sleeve taking one month off can do you the world of good. Rosie sorry to hear of your miscarriage very upsetting, and hard to get back into it again we are here for you! Hello old friends marika, mum ofsix, stephk, essence, la vie maybe June will be our month!!! Hello to anyone I don't know, I had a month off but have been ttc for 3 and on diet for 6 months. Daisymooo sooooo thrilled you got your BFP and im sure its a pinkie with your relaxed attitude xxxxx
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Fab to see you back Kitkat!! Let's hope June is all of our lucky months :) CD9 today for me and DH has asked me not to go to gym. I've been every day since we got back from hols so I don't mind taking one day off (Shame it's the day after a cheese binge and the day of sushi binge!)
I took a meal to a dear friend yesterday, who has just had a daughter. Here is me holding her. In terrified this is the closest I'll ever get to my own...
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Excuse the terrible double chin ^^^^
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Gorgeous!! And what double chin!?!
Happy to see you here again Kitkat! Sorry about you dh, must have been so stressful for all of you! Hope he gets better soon.
Primalmamma - such a nice pic, fx you have your own little pink baby in your arms soon too!
stephk - I so admire your exercise discipline! I think you can relax and skip the gym from one day without any guilt.
Welcome back KitKat! Hope DH recovers soon. I'm glad you took a month off and are ready to get back to it all! It sure is a stressful time.
June HAS to be our month!!!
What a gorgeous pic PrimalMamma!! Hopefully you'll be holding your daughter soon!
Kitcat hope your hubby starts feeling better soon. Even an non-ruptured appendix can take a good 6 weeks to be 100% so 3 weeks in really isn't that long although I'm sure you both feel like it is!
Primalmama I didn't even see your chin haha! I was thinking wow she's cute and skinny and then I thought well she is on the LE diet so she probably would be thinner lol!
As an aside the two week wait is so annoying. I do pretty good at the beginning and now at cd10 or so I start wanting to pee on sticks like 5 times a day and get annoyed when they are negative. 😝
Popping in to say hello again ladies!!!
Been a while, was hoping a few more of you would be over in the due date section by now. I REALLY hope you get some bfps' v v soon!! x
Glad to see you back, kitkat!
Primalmama - that pic is gorgeous! My stomach did a little flip seeing that cute little baby bundle. here's hoping we're all holding our own in about nine months!
*waves to dreaming*
Sweetest pic ever Primalmama!
Hi Dreamingofwin! Hope that I and several more of us can join you soon!
Primalmama you look super hot!! Hope that's you in nine ish months xxx
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Miss you dreaming! How is life without LE ????? No don't tell me I will be jealous , any symptoms? You still going team green? Xxxx
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Dreaming we have missed you and we all wish we were in the due date thread too....hopefully we will be joining soon.... Just had an amazing all you can eat sushi feast, probably had a whole salmon in sashimi lol so if that doesn't bring on ovulation this month what will :)
Forgot to say - an aunty of mine emailed me on Facebook today to say she had seen my holiday pics, she hopes it's not cheeky to ask, but am I expecting baby no 2!!!!! Gutted or what!!
OMFG stephk how RUDE!!!!! Surely most people know you never ever EVER ask a woman if she is expecting, unless they are at the "I swallowed a whole watermelon" stage.
Kidandcat thank you for the compliment but I've actually GAINED weight since going on LE... My energy levels are shot & I can't deal with exercise as I am just too exhausted.
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Thanks ladies. I always check up on you guys to see if you have had your bfps yet!
Yes still staying green-eek! 9 weeks today and saw baby last week with a good hb :) I have fatigue mainly which is same as with my son. Although I was all about the dairy with him but I am all about citrus this time!
Good luck ladies xxxxx
Hi my name is KidandCat and I have ILS.... Imaginary line syndrome. I pee on sticks and then squint and imagine that I'm seeing lines that aren't there! Does anyone else suffer from this? I keep thinking maybe it's a line maybe lol. There is no line there ��. I'm hoping it's still just too early to test and I didn't use FMU either.
Yup you are not alone there! :)
Hahaha Kidandcatmommy! Your are not alone :-)
I should stop hanging out here, I've caught the same syndrome. Lol.
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I am premenstral, & want to stuff my face with anything edible. Not sure when AF will arrive, as I have a pretty irregular cycle. I thought yesterday due to cramping etc & I even wore a pad this morning when I went to work as I was certain it would show up today but not yet. Trying to avoid the monthly pig out, especially because my attempt is only about 2-3 weeks away depending on O.
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Lol, KidandCat! Yes, and it's catching!
I'll admit, I stopped my POAS addiction this month. I've been getting +OPK like clockwork every month, doing 1 attempt (last month 2 just to be sure!) still but no bfp. So I'm thinking either I'm not ovulating or I'm not timing it right. This month, we're just dtd every 4 days. Kinda liberating not looking at lines. Scary in a way too. With easing up on the LE and not checking OPKs, I almost feel freaked that I'm not even swaying anymore. :/
I'm beginning to wonder if the Zyrtec is drying stuff up too much. I'm tempted to stop it and just deal with the sinus headaches until after next attempt if no bfp this time. I ate meat twice once yesterday and today. First meat since January 1st! I figured I'm either pregnant or need to loosen up LE so no foul either way. Unfortunately, the turkey chili gave me such awful heartburn I had to sleep upright. It seemed a bit unfair to me but at least it was yummy haha!
Anyone else have those moments when you feel like it's all a giant waste of time because you can't believe you would ever be lucky enough to get a daughter??? I'm there & feeling rather sorry for myself. 😢
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Oh so sorry Primal mama! It's not about luck just what's meant to be. Or at least I think so anyway. I don't feel like I wouldn't be lucky enough to get one but after dealing with the second little girl with a huge attitude I did question if all little girls are that way and am I crazy for wanting one! It sometimes seems the more I see other kids the less crazy I think my two monkeys are!!!!