Woaw! Such a wonderfull news!! Congrats !! I hope to hear the same words soon :-)Quote:
Originally Posted by has2gentlemen
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Woaw! Such a wonderfull news!! Congrats !! I hope to hear the same words soon :-)Quote:
Originally Posted by has2gentlemen
How far are you now?
It's a difficult dessicion... I would say, follow your feelings... but on the other hand... the scan is already booked and it would take away a lot of doubts wich otherwhise probably will always stay there in those busy coming weeks!Quote:
Originally Posted by netti02
But don't forget to take care of yourself sweetie!
Congratulations samish & has2 :celebrate::celebrate:
Netti it is such a hard decision but I know if it was me I couldn't live with the doubt for the rest of the pregnancy. Go with your heart and do what is right for you xxx
Tomorrow I'm back for bloods as one lot from my booking in appt needs repeating - had to happen to me as I'm crap at giving blood :(
I'm driving myself crazy looking at nub shots and comparing to what I saw in my scan, just wish I had a decent nub shot image.
Congratulations samish & has2!!! Soo happy for you both!!
Netti if I were you I would find out - I think the not knowing is worse! You know what suits you and your family best tho! Xx
Thanks ladies. I won't exactly find out at the scan. I've made the decision if they can tell gender im going to ask if they can print some copies and write it down. DH won't be with me (next weeks schedules are just crazy) and as this is our last id like to do it together.
I also found out this week another friend is due in Feb. Whilst she hasn't had gender confirmed the ob who was doing the scan said he couldn't see anything between the legs. So with 2 friends due with girls after boys, i feel like hibernating for a while [emoji20]
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I know how you feel netti - my cousin got gender confirmed last week as a girl and my sister is having a girl. My cousin, sister and I are very close - we all live beside each other and our kids will all be going to the same school and be in the same class.
This has made me even more anxious about my gender scan - because I know even if I have a beautiful baby boy who I will adore, it will be hard to watch them have that mother/daughter relationship that I will never have.
I now just have to decide to ask about gender on Wednesday (14weeks 3 days) or wait until my private gender scan at 16 weeks. I have no patience but I’m scared they would get it wrong at 14 weeks 3 days.
Thats how i feel as well. Theres very few people i trust and talk to in real life and now 1 of them is having a girl, something ive longed for so long around the same time as me. Its just ugghh.Quote:
Originally Posted by JaneL
As you know i had my scan at 14+3. The pics i got were definitely questionable but the more ive been thinking, they must have seen something surely to say boy. So im all over the place atm. If your getting a gender scan at 16 weeks, id wait til then.
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Congrats Samish and has2!
I was hoping I hear girl but I found out yesterday it’s our BoY #3!
My sway didn’t work.
I just hope when we know the gender for definite it will get easier! I have w very strong feeling that I am having a boy ....and I’m worrried that even family & friends will be disappointed because they all want me to have a girl. I shouldn’t care what people think but it’s hard to ignore all the comments!
I really hope you get a more definite answer at your next scan netti. I can see why your confused with your scan pictures. I had my second sons gender confirmed at 14 weeks and the image was so clear, definitely no confusion!
I think I’ll wait to the 16 week scan - my husband can only go to that one. Just need to try and be patient next week x
Oh Imama - I’m so sorry you didn’t hear girl but congratulations on your baby boy! Big hugs xx
Imama congrats on a darling boy. Sorry you didn't hear girl. Xxx
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Imama. Sorry you didn't hear girl, but so many congrats on a healthy baby boy!
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In my experience with ds5 it was easier when I knew. It stung for a while but in time i felt better. This time, this is the last baby, so i think it may take a Little bit longer. I definitely hear you on the comments from others- its why i waited a long time to tell people this time.Quote:
Originally Posted by JaneL
Im hoping baby is cooperating at this scan too and 18 weeks should be ok. As hard as it is, i would try and wait til 16 weeks too.
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Thank you JaneL, Netti and mommy2apples.
It is easier when I know for sure. I have hoped my third child would be a girl. I’m a little upset of course but also happy to meet my little Man [emoji170]
Congrats on your beautiful little blue addition, Imama! I love your positivity and I am sure he’ll be a blessing for your family. [emoji170]
@HappyLea. You probably dont remember me but we were in a ttc group plus a ddg together going back 5 years ago. We both had boys. I have been following your posts recently. I just saw your recent scan. That most definitely looks like a girl nub!! I am so happy for you and can not wait to hear about your gender scan.
I had my baby girl a litt over 10 months ago now, no swaying just luck! During my scan i saw what i thought was girl nub then boy but my still pictures showed more girlie!!
Best of luck HappyLea xxx!
Omg...pinkin2011 I so remember you as soon as I saw your name. So good to hear from you, congratulations on your dd. I hope your all well. XxxQuote:
Originally Posted by pinkin2011
So nervous for our scan on Monday but excited too, I swear the nub was girl all the way through until one point I thought boy.
I totally feel this is a girl but dont want to get my hopes up and look stupid. We have a boys name ready :)
Good luck at your scan Lea! Hope you hear girl!
Will be stalking for updates on Monday Happylea - you and I seem to be due around the same time! However my gender scan isn’t until 16weeks! So not this Sunday but next!!! I’m constantly thinking about gender now that we are getting closer to the date of the scan!
Netti when is your scan?
In 7 hours...Quote:
Originally Posted by JaneL
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Good luck to everyone waiting, just casually stalking for Netti and happy lol xxx
Add me to the sway list please. Swayed Girl - Gender not yet known - Due June 26
Thinking of you netti .....all the best xx
Thinking of you as well netti and hope you get a surprise [emoji173] Do you feel prepared either way? I cant imagine how hard this has been on you [emoji174]
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(((Huge Hugs))) Netti! My heart goes out to you, and I’m sending lots of strength your way...
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Thanks ladies.
Pbn to be honest im not sure how i feel. Theres been a great deal going on with work and home, its the first time a scan has snuck up on me without a countdown. I felt i haven't really had the time to process either possibility, yet i think i kept myself deliberately busy so I wouldn't dwell.
I feel it's a boy. i mean what else could it be. There had to be something at the 14 week scan that they were certain it was a boy despite the pics. Hopefully they can accommodate my request with gender pics if they can tell.
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CongratsQuote:
Originally Posted by teampinkdream
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Netti, thinking of you! Cant’ be too long before your scan, hope that whatever you hear, you will be at peace :hugs:
Thinking of you Netti!! I hope all goes well!
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Definitely a boy. Tech was pretty certain boy unless its girl with a penis. Initially before checking gender tech was thinking girl and there didn't seem to be anything between. On closer look though when i wanted to see it was obvious. I have to go back in a few weeks to check heart and parts of the brain as still a little early for that but ill check again. I was measuring 17+5.
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Congratulations with your baby boy!Quote:
Originally Posted by netti02
I couldn't wait till my scan on the 6th of December so I cave in and made an appointment for a private genderscan this week on Saterdaymorning! I will be 14 weeks by than. They claim they can tell you the gender on that gestiation. So my fingers are crossed that that will be the case. I'm so nervous to find out, but at least you can used to the idea. I've a strong feeling he will be a boy...
Another question... when did you see your belly growing? And when can you feel the first movements of the baby? I can't remember with my previous pregnancies as they were to long ago (the boys are already 8 and 9 y old). Anyone already experience those movements?
(((Huge Hugs))) Netti. I’m glad all looks well with your bub. I’m SO sorry you heard/saw boy [emoji20]. My heart goes out to you.Quote:
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Thanks XX. Part of me is just relieved i know definitely and i can start enjoying this last pregnancy. It will be good to finally declutter all the baby stuff in the house. Deep down i always felt like it would be too good to be true, a true miracle. Its just a shame i couldn't get to use my girl name.Quote:
Originally Posted by XXforhubby
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Hold onto the name. Keep it. When your boys get old enough to have children, you can share it with them. That’s what my Grandma did, and my Uncle Gary named their daughter the name she would have used. It was very healing for my Grandma.Quote:
Originally Posted by netti02
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Finger crossed for you. Do let us know how it goes.Quote:
Originally Posted by PinkHope
I am only 13.5 weeks and i already look massive may be due to the weight I gain during HE Diet or because it is my third pregnancy.
I am also feeling faint movements, my doctor thinks it could be gasses as it is not possible to feel movement that early. But it is my third pregnancy and I know the diference between baby moves and gases :)
Oh Netti (Hugs)Quote:
Originally Posted by netti02
I know how it feels, hang in there. Try to connect with baby, the more your are connected, the less will be GD
Oh Netti I was really hoping you would get your girl, it would have made me feel like anything is possible!!! I know how hard it is now but as you also know it will feel different when you have him in your arms x
I'm sorry to pop in with my own selfish needs again. I feel like I never have time to check in until I can't get the worry out of my head.
I was just wondering, has anyone been told their baby's nuchal fold was measuring too big? I had my 20 week scan last week and revived a call from my doctor yesterday saying my sweet Oliver has excessive skin on the nape of his neck. They are sending me to a specialist because this is a sign of down syndrome. I'm heartbroken and I don't know what to do. I know I will love him and keep him regardless. The mental and physical disabilities just mean extra care, and thay I can handle. But I'm well aware of the abundance of health risks that come with down syndrome, and the fact that we are not financially capable of giving him what he needs in terms of medical and future educational resources, if he does habe down syndrome.
I'm so scared, and I feel so guilty. I really do feel like I played with mother nature and caused this to happen. I know scientifically they say that's not possible, but I can't help but feel that way when my girls are 100% healthy and then I discover swaying, get my so desired gender, and it turns out that he has a distinctive characteristic of down syndrome.
I'm trying not to worry just yet, and Sr if they find any other symptoms at my level 2 ultrasound, but every hour thinking about this feels like forever.
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I could very clearly see my baby boy at 14weeks+3days. I noticed my belly growing as early as 6-8 weeks, but others didn't notice until 10 weeks. I first felt dd1 move at 19 weeks, dd2 at 18 weeks and now ds I felt at 17weeks+2days. He is by far my most active. Good luck at your gender scan!Quote:
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