Shan what a fabulous idea with the BBQ maybe I need to do something like that. Sounds fun I always like get together a
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Shan what a fabulous idea with the BBQ maybe I need to do something like that. Sounds fun I always like get together a
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Exactly! I usually do the cooking for it and all, but this time I am still feeeling so tired and drained that I am getting it catered. My MIL is picking it all up too, so I have less to do. Poor DH is stressing that we have so much to do for the party and I am like, Oh well. They all know us and if they don't like the house the way it is - tough.Quote:
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Great idea Shann!! It'll be super fun!!
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True! I have a friend at my mops group who envies her sister because of her relaxed attitude. She told a story of her church group getting ready to come over and she had asked her sister if she was going to clean and she said her sister looked at her puzzled and said why would I clean we all have kids and we're all friends. I sometimes wish I could have a not caring attitude but I'm to anal and clean from sun up till sun down. But I also don't work and have high respect for women who work and have to clean.
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Well, since my weekend to clean and get ready was spent in the hospital, I just don't care anymore. I am too tired to care. I will clean a bit and put stuff away, but I can't send myself into labor doing it. So I have had to just let go this time.
Maxim that's great you bought a couple things! The only other thing I can suggest is to not try and force yourself to come to terms with this in a certain timeline. Just let it happen on its own accord. Don't hate on yourself for feeling this way (and Shann, Kat and LMSM this is for you too [emoji173]) you're only human and we all struggle when we don't get something we want, especially when someone we know does, we all came to this site for the very reason of trying to get what we want. I have read many stories on here of GD but they all end the same, whether its prior to or after birth, mum and bub always bond and often so strongly that it takes mum by surprise xxoo
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Mommaxo3 thank you! And I think it might be because of the tests that's she's seeing me a week earlier. I'm not going to worry about it regardless.
Dancing I still cant believe I said 'her' as I truly have no inclination either way. I'm beginning to think perhaps she just misheard me [emoji848][emoji23]
Mommy2apples you are gorgoues [emoji8] and your dh is one lucky man!! As for finding somewhere to hide it, hmmmm is there something he does routinely at home? Like a daily habit? Maybe you could stash it where he goes regularly but its out of sight. Will think on it some more....
Shannshaff love the bbq idea!!!
Ash I'm the same cleaning wise [emoji17] I have let go somewhat which you have to when you have kids but I can only let go so much then I go nuts with cleaning, I'm forever picking up during the day.... I may sound like I'm joking about being a bit ocd but I honestly do believe I have a minor dose of it.
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Thanks Pbn! [emoji15][emoji8] so are you! lol probably would have to be the most obvious place so he wouldn't look! He's so nosey! Lol worse than the kids! I can never surprise him!
eek! I cannot wait until you hold your sweet baby and tell us gender!
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This may sound silly but what if you mail it to him? Use a computer to print out the name and address part so he wont know straight away its from you. Then again that could be risky if it gets lost in the post [emoji30]
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That would be so cute though pbn! As he would never expect it!!
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Max - can't see message for some reason ☹️ I love kissy kissy though [emoji175] Look at Aden and Anais for play baby boy stuff - their patterns are dreamy [emoji170] I bought tons and had to send back.
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Max i agree with the rest having been through GD i can assure you you will get over this and that little boy will steel ur heart away.
Shann thats a nice tradition of BBQ shower ! Hope u have fun.
Mommy best of luck ! Praying for a BFP for u soon.
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Bluebooties how long until your appt?
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About 11 hours from now pbn3
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Thanks bluebooties!
Praying for you and your sweet little baby!
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All the best for your appmnt Bluebooties.
Thinking of you Max. Give yourself all the time you need xx
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All the best for your appointment bluebooties. Praying you hear good news.
Thinking of you bluebooties xoxo
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I’m hoping with everything I have that your sweet baby is perfectly healthy, Bluebooties.
(((Hugs)))
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Thank you ladies. In waiting room right now.
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Bluebooties- Praying for you. Will be waiting to hear from you. Hugs.
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Mommy2apples-thats such a nice idea.
Max-I hope you feel better. Once you have him in your arms I'm sure it'll be instant bliss.
Ash-I'm pretty lax on the cleaning but it's only because I work full time and at the end of the day there's just no time left in the day. I'm already worried I won't bond with this baby because I'm not going to really be able to see it during the week only about an hour a day if that because of my hectic schedule. This is causing a ton of anxiety.
Bluebooties - good luck!
Thanks momma! That's hard! Hopefully something will break through and you will get more time to spend with baby!
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Just a quick update. Baby still had concerning findings so doc suggested aminocentesis and i am getting it done in about 10 to 15 mins.
Looking like down unless proven otherwise. They will check zika too as they spoke to cdc and they recommend going ahead with it as u still cant say for sure it wasn't in orlando in june
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Blue prayers for you and your sweet baby that all is okay.
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Bluebooties- I’m sending tons of prayers your way for you and your sweet baby!
(((Huge Hugs)))
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Aww momma that's hard.
Blue [emoji50] I'm so sorry what a load to take on. I couldn't imagine doing an amnio without preparation. I sure hope all turns out well. Hopefully it's nothing but if it is I'm sure you'll have a beautiful baby no matter the case.
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Bluebooties- Big hugs and I am so
sorry. Praying so hard for you and the baby. Hoping for all to be ok. Do you have someone with you?
We are moving today but I will
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Checking whenever I get a break in between.
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Yes DH came with this time. Its so hard getting off days from work and then apparently doc was leaving for some trip/conference so we decided to go ahead with it today. Now back at work trying to catch up missed time. It's going to be a looong day. But thank you for the prayers ladies.
The thing is the amnio and tests can possibly tell me what baby has but i guess no one can tell me how gifted/special baby might be and i don't know if i am ready to cope with those needs. I am already so overwhelmed as is. The only good would be if tests come back as all negative but based on my knowledge and the findings i am highly suspecting Down's.
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Oh Bluebooties thinking of you and your sweet bub. Did they give you a time frame of when you will have the results? I certainly understand you on those feelings of being overwhelmed. Tests can only tell you so much not the whole story. Thinking of you and hoping for the best.
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Mommy - I hope so too but I highly doubt it. I had similar anxiety/depression with my 2nd, and had a lot of detachment issues with her.
Bluebooties - Thinking of you and baby! I hope the amnio doesn't take too long to come back.
So many hugs momma! Will keep you in prayers for a solution!
Prayers bluebooties!
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HUGS Blue!!!! Praying for you and baby!!!
Hugs Bluebooties, :hugs: I am hoping so much the amino results come back fast and positive, ruling out an issue FX
You will be in my thoughts :awe:
Oh, Blue! Many thoughts and prayers for you!
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Bluebooties I'm sorry you are going through this and hoping with everything for a positive outcome. Did they give you a time frame on getting results? Such a weight to be carrying while you're waiting to find out. Huge hugs xxoo
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Oh blue, that really is not nice :( praying it works out for you. I understand what you mean about the extent of special needs etc. Tests just say yay or nay, not how mild or severe they could be.
My friend had to make a decision at 17 weeks pregnant when they saw the spine to abort because baby had severe spina bifida and may not even survive birth let alone ever walk or control its bowels etc. She said it was the hardest decision she ever made. Talk openly and honestly with your DH, don't let any person's opinions sway your thoughts or feeling.
Praying the amnio test brings back good news.
Yes i will get the trisomy 18 13 21 results by Tuesday Wednesday. Infection results including zika and microdeletion extended panel will take till next Friday at least.
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Ok. The wait will be agonizing [emoji853] Is your dh being a good support? How is he responding to all this? I hope you both have a good support person whether it's each other or a family member/friend.
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Blue, I'm so so sorry! Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers!!
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