Originally Posted by
bluebonnet22
Sarah, yes we are having b/g twins. You are definitely right that I spent so much time psyching myself up for 2 boys that it affected him more than I thought it would. I thought he'd be equally happy with b/b or b/g, but I had no idea how excited he was for a huge brood of boys. He's also extremely scared of raising a daughter. Every time I speak with him he comes up with something new "what about dating" or "how do I change a girl diaper". He's extremely freaked out! I'm hoping he'll come around before she's born, otherwise I guess I have to hope she will melt his heart once she's here. He has admitted to me that he didn't realize how much this would affect him and didn't realize the idea of b/g twins would be so upsetting to him until we actually found out. He thought he didn't care that much, but now that we know it's making him so upset.