Due in March/April/May 2013 Roll call!

Is it today or tomorrow? I can't remember where you live! Nervous and excited for you, Spinning! :)

Oh Spinning I can imagine!!! How long have you got to wait?? I feel sick everytime I think about my scan and I have 28 days to go lol Lord knows what Id be like with only hours... Hang in there, Good Luck hon xoxox

It's tomorrow.. I'm on the east coast.. At 1 pm

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Originally Posted by spinningmadly

Ugh I feel sick to my stomach about my scan.

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I know how that feels ;) you need to do something to distract your mind, haha i know its almost impossible though. Your not going to sleep very deeply tonight. I actually had a dream about my scan the night before and it was a boy for me in my dream, i just thought it was cool because i am not one to have premonition dreams or anything.

every time I think its a boy and lose hope bc my MS gets a little better.. it gets worse again the next day and I feel like it gives me false hope that it might be a girl. ugh

Wishing you luck tomorrow spinning! We are here and waiting for whatever news you bring!

Rosie i can't remember, did you end up having a 12 week US?

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Originally Posted by Brandles

We just left our OB office and my Dr scanned me as I hoped she would. I'm officially definitely having a little girl!!! It's been confirmed three times now. I think I can stop obsessing over it!!! :running: I am so thrilled and over the moon that after having three wonderful boys, I'm finally getting my daughter. :pregnant:

BUT, I'm heartbroken and don't know how to deal with my Husband who is sad, disappointed, and not excited at all. I want to cry!!! When we had ds3 and I was told girl in the beginning and confirmed boy at elective scan at 18 weeks we were both devastated, although he handled it a lot better than me, but was still disappointed we were having a boy. Somedays even though I was grieving that little girl I thought I was carrying I found myself comforting him and reassuring him it was going to be ok. I have no idea why the change if heart. I've been hearing that he wants a boy for the last 4 weeks or so and I don't know what to do. At first I thought it was because he didn't want to be GD again, but today he said he wanted a brother for ds3 that was closer in age and because we already have all boy stuff a boy would've been easier. :SS: Makes me want to cry.

Any advice on how to handle a husband with GD? I seriously feel so guilty being so excited.

Thanks for listening ladies, it feels better so type it out.

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Yay congratulations sweetie so pleased for you.
Maybe your dh is scared, he'll be ok just give him time xx

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Originally Posted by spinningmadly

Ugh I feel sick to my stomach about my scan.

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Good luck today will be thinking of you. Wishing pink news for you xx

Best of luck today spinning, praying for pink for you.

Hope the scan goes well, spinning! Deep breaths!

Best of luck Spinning, thinking of you. xxx

so whats the time now where you are spinning?? It's 5.30pm on 5th here so I am imagining it is early morning for you??? Trying to keep track.. Hoping I wont be asleep for your update - Good Luck again x

Good luck today Spinning. I made myself so ill while waiting for my scan last week, kept having to pop to the loo and felt so sick. Hope the day doesn't drag for you x

Just when I start to think I'm doing ok with my gd I get a day where I just feel so sad about it again. :(

We've been doing some decorating and I've been sorting loads of things out, I have a suitcase that I store summer/ winter bits in and I also had some nice dresses that are too small for me but I was saving because I thought I could use the fabric to make a lovely dress for my own daughter one day. Made me remember that my wedding dress is being stored in my mums attic too. I've put the dresses from the case into a bag for the charity shop because it just made me feel so sad and cross to see them. I feel like I may as well do the same with my wedding dress too, what's the point in saving it. :(
I've also got a box full of baby girls clothes that a friend gave me just in case we ever have a girl, I'm just going to charity shop it as it is too painful to keep hold of.

I just feel so sad and cross, I know I will love my new little man to pieces and I truly feel blessed to be lucky enough to have three children but it doesn't take the hurt away that there is a good chance I will never have a daughter.

I'm still not sure whether number 4 would be an option for us in the future, I go from having days where I think no way we have to stop at three, to other days where I think maybe in a couple of years if we are in a position where another baby is a possibility then I shouldn't rule it out. Then I have days like today where I think what is the point?! I'd be over 35 so the risks of having complications would go up and I'd probably have another boy anyway.

I dreamt last night that I had another scan and it was a girl which is probably why I feel so cross and fed up today.

I so hope you come back with good news Spinning, I am saying lots of prayers for you and keeping everything crossed! xxxx

Good luck today spinning, thinking of u xxx

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Just when I start to think I'm doing ok with my gd I get a day where I just feel so sad about it again. :(

We've been doing some decorating and I've been sorting loads of things out, I have a suitcase that I store summer/ winter bits in and I also had some nice dresses that are too small for me but I was saving because I thought I could use the fabric to make a lovely dress for my own daughter one day. Made me remember that my wedding dress is being stored in my mums attic too. I've put the dresses from the case into a bag for the charity shop because it just made me feel so sad and cross to see them. I feel like I may as well do the same with my wedding dress too, what's the point in saving it. :(
I've also got a box full of baby girls clothes that a friend gave me just in case we ever have a girl, I'm just going to charity shop it as it is too painful to keep hold of.

I just feel so sad and cross, I know I will love my new little man to pieces and I truly feel blessed to be lucky enough to have three children but it doesn't take the hurt away that there is a good chance I will never have a daughter.

I'm still not sure whether number 4 would be an option for us in the future, I go from having days where I think no way we have to stop at three, to other days where I think maybe in a couple of years if we are in a position where another baby is a possibility then I shouldn't rule it out. Then I have days like today where I think what is the point?! I'd be over 35 so the risks of having complications would go up and I'd probably have another boy anyway.

I dreamt last night that I had another scan and it was a girl which is probably why I feel so cross and fed up today.

I so hope you come back with good news Spinning, I am saying lots of prayers for you and keeping everything crossed! xxxx

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im sorry your having such a bad day hun!! big big hugs coming your way!! wish there was something i could say to help you :( xxx

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Originally Posted by mummypink

Just when I start to think I'm doing ok with my gd I get a day where I just feel so sad about it again. :(

We've been doing some decorating and I've been sorting loads of things out, I have a suitcase that I store summer/ winter bits in and I also had some nice dresses that are too small for me but I was saving because I thought I could use the fabric to make a lovely dress for my own daughter one day. Made me remember that my wedding dress is being stored in my mums attic too. I've put the dresses from the case into a bag for the charity shop because it just made me feel so sad and cross to see them. I feel like I may as well do the same with my wedding dress too, what's the point in saving it. :(
I've also got a box full of baby girls clothes that a friend gave me just in case we ever have a girl, I'm just going to charity shop it as it is too painful to keep hold of.

I just feel so sad and cross, I know I will love my new little man to pieces and I truly feel blessed to be lucky enough to have three children but it doesn't take the hurt away that there is a good chance I will never have a daughter.

I'm still not sure whether number 4 would be an option for us in the future, I go from having days where I think no way we have to stop at three, to other days where I think maybe in a couple of years if we are in a position where another baby is a possibility then I shouldn't rule it out. Then I have days like today where I think what is the point?! I'd be over 35 so the risks of having complications would go up and I'd probably have another boy anyway.

I dreamt last night that I had another scan and it was a girl which is probably why I feel so cross and fed up today.

I so hope you come back with good news Spinning, I am saying lots of prayers for you and keeping everything crossed! xxxx

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Oh sweetie big hugs to you.
I think you should at least keep your wedding dress if you don't go on to have a 4th you could save it for your granddaughters??

Thinking of you and praying you hear pink, Spinning. I'm on the east coast as well, so I'll obesess down to the minute with you. :fx:

Mummypink, don't give anything away. I really think you'll regret it. Have this baby and see what happens. Before I had my 3rd I said I was done. When she got here, I wanted another one. Having 4 kids is AMAZING!!! I'm not trying to push you in that direction. I just want you to wait and see my friend. Maybe you won't want any more. But maybe you will. And if you do, and it's your dd, you want have these things to hand down to her. We love you mummpink!!!

My mother and husband have stated both strongly they think I'm having a girl. One week exactly until I find out. Eek. :(

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Originally Posted by cherubrock

Hi everyone, I don't think I've posted much on this thread yet but I am due May 7th. Had a scan today at 18+1 (I decided this out of the blue)...like most of the ladies on here I am also expecting a boy!

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Welcome! Congrats on your beautiful baby boy....I know he will be wonderful! I am due May 1st...so we're very close in due dates...but I always have c-sections, so I'll have my baby boy probably on April 24th or 25th.

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My mother and husband have stated both strongly they think I'm having a girl. One week exactly until I find out. Eek. :(

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EEK was exactly how I felt....like I wanted to know but didn't want to know..............at least it puts us out of the misery of waiting..............praying all my pink dust from my past over you!

stalking.....i have no idea of the time difference between us but i keep checking this thread for updates!! xx

Lol it's at 100 and right now it's 1015. So still almost 3 hours to go!

Hbp and I will both be back at 6 ish :.)x

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Originally Posted by Cinss

Rosie i can't remember, did you end up having a 12 week US?

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Nope I did not :-) couldn't justify it

2 hours spinning!

I'm also stalking :)

2 more hours for Spinning.....can't wait to hear..................:cheerteam:

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Originally Posted by ThreeMenAndALAdy

Mummypink, don't give anything away. I really think you'll regret it. Have this baby and see what happens. Before I had my 3rd I said I was done. When she got here, I wanted another one. Having 4 kids is AMAZING!!! I'm not trying to push you in that direction. I just want you to wait and see my friend. Maybe you won't want any more. But maybe you will. And if you do, and it's your dd, you want have these things to hand down to her. We love you mummpink!!!

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Awww, thanks Threemen, that brought tears to my eyes. So glad I have all you lovely ladies to understand how I feel, sorry for my downer post earlier. I was just feeling so fed up! I think it showed because my ds1 came up to me and gave me a cuddle and said 'I love you mummy' made my heart melt.
I am getting excited to meet my new little man, I can't wait to see what he looks like and get those gorgeous newborn cuddles. This gd is so weird, on the one hand I'm excited about meeting my new little man and on the other I feel sad I'm not getting the daughter I keep dreaming about!

Can't remember if I've said this in another post but I've decided to do rainbow colours this time for bedding etc as I am so bored of boys stuff! My mum is knitting me some lovely blankets, and I've been picking out brightly coloured boys stuff which is helping me to get excited about it all. :)

Mummypink I get the same feelings. I'm happy one day, and the next day I'm sad that we won't be adding another girl to our family. Hopefully those days will start to fade soon. But we're always here and you're never a downer...your real, and we love you for it.

Thank you! I love you all too :D

Spinning - I am stalking for an update and have my fingers firmly crossed for you still. xx

Ugh I'm dreading this. I know shes going to say boy. Maybe it's better to not know

Thinking of u spinning, I hope u hear the news u want hun xxx

I hope to God you have a phone Spinning, and update asap. I've had a nervous belly for you all morning. Praying for pink!!!!

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Originally Posted by mummypink

Just when I start to think I'm doing ok with my gd I get a day where I just feel so sad about it again. :(

We've been doing some decorating and I've been sorting loads of things out, I have a suitcase that I store summer/ winter bits in and I also had some nice dresses that are too small for me but I was saving because I thought I could use the fabric to make a lovely dress for my own daughter one day. Made me remember that my wedding dress is being stored in my mums attic too. I've put the dresses from the case into a bag for the charity shop because it just made me feel so sad and cross to see them. I feel like I may as well do the same with my wedding dress too, what's the point in saving it. :(
I've also got a box full of baby girls clothes that a friend gave me just in case we ever have a girl, I'm just going to charity shop it as it is too painful to keep hold of.

I just feel so sad and cross, I know I will love my new little man to pieces and I truly feel blessed to be lucky enough to have three children but it doesn't take the hurt away that there is a good chance I will never have a daughter.

I'm still not sure whether number 4 would be an option for us in the future, I go from having days where I think no way we have to stop at three, to other days where I think maybe in a couple of years if we are in a position where another baby is a possibility then I shouldn't rule it out. Then I have days like today where I think what is the point?! I'd be over 35 so the risks of having complications would go up and I'd probably have another boy anyway.

I dreamt last night that I had another scan and it was a girl which is probably why I feel so cross and fed up today.

I so hope you come back with good news Spinning, I am saying lots of prayers for you and keeping everything crossed! xxxx

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Mummypink big hugs!!!! I was there yesterday! I have more good days than good, but those bad days hurt a lot!!
Why why why??????? I know exactly how you feel:( it will change when they get here, I hold onto that!

Stalking spinning:.)

Thanks Coocoo, sending you a hug right back. xxx

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