HAPPY MOTHERS DAY LADIES!!!!!! :) Hope everybody has a great day!
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HAPPY MOTHERS DAY LADIES!!!!!! :) Hope everybody has a great day!
Happy Mother's Day Everyone!!!
Happy Mother's Day!!!:flowerz:
Advanced Maternal Age! 35+ at birth
Hi Nachelle. I went to page 1 and saw Strawberry moms post with everyone's due date and even mine on there, though I'm new to this 'group'... (Thank you, Strawberry Mom!) I noticed that our due dates are one day apart! You have a right to get mad at inconsiderate comments like that... You sound like an awesome mom and however many children you and husband decide to have will always be your decision and your business – period. Also, I don’t understand why people in your life are getting annoyed about you talking about your baby-to=be… every mother ponders that big “What sex is my baby?” question… I hope your boys made you feel like the luckiest mom in the world today. When I get down, my son brings me up again…
Mob – the person’s response when you mentioned your boys are so excited about having a brother was not cool. Of course that matters!!!…. And it would have been nice of her to comment on your nausea or extreme fatigue and say something like, “I hope the fatigue and sickness goes away soon.” rather than use the “how are you feeling” norm question to segue into “… so, another boy, huh?” I think a lot of people who say things like that are looking for a hint of disappointment… (and feed off of it sometimes) which is why I think she may have responded negatively to your positive comment about your boys enthusiasm about having another brother. I don’t know her and I could be way off base, but I’ve come across so many people who feed off other people’s disappointments in life because it makes them feel better about their own somehow. (I know you are psyched about your boy-to-be so I am not intimating you are disappointed.). And I’d rather my hands be full than empty too… I think you’re right to be prepared… the best way to diffuse negativity is to be armed with positive thoughts/comments. It’s nice to hear you are bonding with your baby-to-be!
Thanks MOB and Kira!!! :) YOur post made me feel so much better! It shouldnt matter what other people think, I love my family the way it is and I know if we decide to have more kids it will only get better! And I find out the gender of our new baby next week so poo on them! lol Thanks again ladies! :)