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Ttc - I am so sorry about what's going on. Such a tough spot to be in. I agree with Pbn to go easy on dh. I bet he is already bummed about the pull out.
The what ifs are the worse so whatever you decide we are here to support. Hugs.
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Pbn, Thank you so much for getting back to me. I'm getting rather frustrated with dh. I got really emotional after he told me he pulled out (I wouldn't know because we were in the shower) and I started crying and told him it was my 1st attempt. Then he said he was sorry because he didn't know and said he wants to try again tonight and in the am but I said no because it would sway pink.. Now he says he didn't actually "finish" (tmi warning) ...He says he felt a"gush" and when he pulled out there was white clumps on him and he thought I had a yeast infection and it grossed him out but he didn't want to hurt my feelings. I think what he saw was the preseed with a small amount of baking soda in it. But yeah, so long story short, he says he didn't really finish, but I don't know if that's true or if he's just saying that because he feels bad. I will pm xx and ask her opinion.. thanks again pbn!
Thank you sky! I'm really confused right now :(
Mommy, thank you.. that makes me feel better. Right now I'm thinking I will bd tonight and in the am, as I've never really liked the idea of the day after pill (though not going to lie, it crossed my mind) I would just never forgive myself if I took that thing and then didn't concieve next month. I can't bring myself to stop a possible pregnancy for any reason.. I can't help but feel like this is my punishment for sneaking behind his back for extra attempts :(
I would definitely advise you to ask xxforhubby and Pbn since I don't know more myself. However I just want to ask when did your opk turned positive? I think having more attempts after pos opk is the best for blue and if you and dh havebn having sex pretty regularly from af then the swimmers should be fine. O happens 24-48 hours after pos opk so do u think u still have time? Again, the best idea is to ask xx.
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My positive was 6:30 this morning, last night it was close at 8:00. We bd cd 7, 10, 12 and 14 (which was today). How do I find xx to pm her?
Ttcblue I'll pm her for you as I use tapatalk and not sure how the desktop pms work :) I'll ask her to come in and read the last few pages of posts xxoo
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Go to home page of GD where you see forum, unread messages, Subscribe. Just above subscribe there are three lines,u click on that then you will see your name and a drop
Down and one of the option is send a new pm. That's where u need to send a pm from. Let me know if you can't find it. I can send pictures of screenshots.
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Just pmed her ttcblue :)
Thanks Sky 😀
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Oh I didn't know ttc blue uses desktop. I also have tapatalk.
I still feel that if the pos was 6:30
Am today then u still have a good shot at trying pm today, am tomorrow and pm tomorrow.
Or wait until am tomorrow then pm and then again day after am.
But my knowledge is way limited so please wait for xxforhubby' response. She and Pbn are the ones I would ask.
Or you can always start a new thread and ask Atomic.
What do you say Pbn?
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