Ladies due in Sept/Oct/Nov 2012, gather here!

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Originally Posted by Flava

aurora- no jolly ranchers for me yet!

My mom never saw my kids and MIL only saw DD1 and 2 and DD3 once in the hospital that's it. so my kids dont have a grandma. FIL is coming to visit us this summer we already got him a flight ticket. I just know he want to find out the gender so maybe we have to go to a private u/s .Now just think about how is that for me!!! OMG...they all sit there waiting to hear boy and I lay on the table and if they say it's a girl no way I will look at them at all.
So because of this I don't want to go and I don't want to find out !AAAAAAAAAAAAAA

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A scan by yourself may be best. I would love to have my MIL, the boy's, and even DH with me but I know I will either cry during the scan or in the car after.



My dad has only seen DS1 2x's and once was only for a few hours. The other time DH had to turn the tv off and hide the remote just to get him to play with DS1 for a few minutes. Everyone went to their rooms to watch tv. My dad has never met DS2. He lives a 5hr drive away and I always offer to pay for gas but he never comes, even when he promises. My mom will never ever meet my kids unless she wants me to release years and years of built up anger. My sisters met DS1 once when he was 13mths but they didn't care to be involved didn't even get any pics of them with him. My sisters go crazy for my brothers daughters. My bro has never met my kids but we are working out a big family trip next year.

We only have a babies r us around here but so close to us. and I don't know if they sell it in store or just ship it.
But really how can I have a pop in front of my kids I have no idea.

I don't know if I will get a nub pic or not .If it looks boyish I want DH to come to the gender scan if looks like a girl then not and not FIL for sure!
I don't know...Im thinking girl right now . DH keep on saying this one is different and it makes me angry because I know he is thinking it's a boy maybe.
Actually i would love to have a surprise baby because I never had but im sure DH want to know.
So really i have no clue what to do!

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Originally Posted by Flava

We only have a babies r us around here but so close to us. and I don't know if they sell it in store or just ship it.
But really how can I have a pop in front of my kids I have no idea.

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They have one without the stick and you can pretend it is yucky medicine.

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Originally Posted by Flava

I don't know if I will get a nub pic or not .If it looks boyish I want DH to come to the gender scan if looks like a girl then not and not FIL for sure!
I don't know...Im thinking girl right now . DH keep on saying this one is different and it makes me angry because I know he is thinking it's a boy maybe.
Actually i would love to have a surprise baby because I never had but im sure DH want to know.
So really i have no clue what to do!

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Have them print a pic and put it in an envolop for later.... if DH still wants to know then give it to him and tell him he can't tell anyone. But if he starts walking around with a big grin then he will give it away. If you want to find out over some comfort food then you can wait until then.

I love the idea of a surprise just because I already know that I don't want anymore after this. But I am afraid of crying in the delivery room if it was a boy.

Looks like we can't win huh? I just don't know what i will do , really. Would be so nice to be happy together and see DH face if they say boy! But im so scared they will say girl again and I see his hope gone and all I better don't have a scan or don't find out. I would cry too...i did before.

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Originally Posted by purplepoet20

They have one without the stick and you can pretend it is yucky medicine.

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haha that's a good one

Have another Q anyone have lots of cm? And how can I make it go way ?LOL
I feel always wet and it's so annoying and getting more now I need panty liner. I was so happy for no more af no more tampon and now this :sigh:

Had it and nothing ever worked!

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Originally Posted by purplepoet20

Had it and nothing ever worked!

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ahh what great news for me lol .I never had it before I guess really every pregnancy is different.