Thank you all so much :) I figure that there's no reason to be upset... after all this is something I cannot control, so I might as well make the best of it! After all, every single baby is a blessing no matter what gender :)
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Thank you all so much :) I figure that there's no reason to be upset... after all this is something I cannot control, so I might as well make the best of it! After all, every single baby is a blessing no matter what gender :)
Aw! Congrats :) So happy for you! What a great attitude! Good luck on the name hunt...we actually have a ton of boys names, girls are way harder for us.
Congratulations Charlee!! A beautiful healthy baby is all we can ever really hope for. And it's kinda funny how we focus so much on gender (perhaps because its the only thing with two variables) when actually gender doesn't determine heart, soul and character - and these are the things that truly define a person not whats going on between their legs. :-)
Boys are absolute treasures! Well done on being so positive. There is no doubt its disappointing when you've got your mind set on something, at least in this situation you have something equally wonderful to embrace, which it seems you most definitely are!! Congratulations again!
You know what my theory is? You did everything possible to sway and this is your outcome. So what, it would have been this way without swaying, but you would have wondered if it could have been different. Now you know you tried your best, and this is the bub that REALLY wanted to be in your family to get past all those sway factors. The fact it took a long time to conceive shows that you tried very hard with a very hardcore sway for a long time and that didn't work. Maybe dh has only boy swimmers, who knows. But you tried and this is the outcome, no what ifs.
Congrats honey this healthy bub really wanted you and you want him just as much. At least you found out now and can deal with feelings of GD over 20 weeks so that you are totally embracing the situation by the time you give birth. Xxx
Meeks you of all people know how hard I swayed for NINE months!! Am I disappointed? You betcha! LOL But what good is it going to do to be upset now?? I gave it my all and got this little boy in return, so he must be something special :)
And now I get to be part of the super cool sway opposites group! I'm pretty sure we are a bunch of rock stars :)haha
Congratulations Charlee, he must be one determined little fella to get through that sway! At least you now know, I think the waiting and the suspense is the hardest part! 3 little boys, brothers, and hopefully best friends! Will be wonderful!
Congrats on a 3rd baby boy Charlee!! What a beautiful club to be a part of.....no doubt I will be joining you there shortly too :) boys are a total and utter blessing and just think.....we get to raise these beautiful little humans into kind & compassionate men who will one day meet the woman of their dreams and make them as happy as we are with our husbands :) xx
Lovely and true!!Quote:
Originally Posted by beachbubs
Congratulations charlee. So sorry you didn't hear girl. He is going to be beautiful and so special as he chose you as his mummy x