Due March / April / May 2017 (4)

Thanks ladies, she is a little better this morning. I slept really poorly, back to the anxiety and tearfulness that I felt when I first found out, although not as bad. Hoping that it passes soon. My mum is staying with us, as she wants to spend time with my brothers baby and she does not get on well enough with sister in law to stay with them. She is not the sort of person that you want to be round when your not coping. She told my dd yesterday that she was just been silly, how invalidating? She also had a go at me this morning, in front of the children, which am not happy about. Basically she was explaining to my dd that she would have to help with the new baby and my dd said she did not want to, I told dd that she did not have to help if she did not want to, my mum just had a real go at me, saying she was only joking and I always say the opposite of what she says. If it continues I am going to ask her to go home, but she will twist that to me not coping with my niece and preventing her spending time with her!

Honestly, this process is so stressful and it just seems to be dragging on and on. I so regret this whole process, I wish I had never got pregnant and just counted my many blessings!

Lissastick and bukoram sorry your daughter and son are also struggling it is so hard, hope our babies find a way to come to terms with their sibling and it enriches their life! X

I'd already be kicking my mom out girlie. You are trying to be nice and do her a favor and she is being rude ungrateful and invalidating.not just to you but your daughter. Hope her attitude flips around

Lindz just to jump in, both of my children had huge heads...like 98th percentile and 95th percentile according to ultrasounds. However they look completely proportional and you would never have any clue. I'm convinced ultrasounds are out there to scare people.

Anyone really good with baby positioning? lately i dont feel much in the front of my belly for movements anymore i feel lots off stuff off to the sides of my belly...any chance she is looking at my spine? Lol my last baby was posterior and made me suffer until my c section date as she just wasnt in the position to do anything to my cervix...felt alot of movement in the front of my belly and could see body parts shoot up until day before c section...dd2 was perfectly anterior and i was dialated to a 5 and in labor at 37 weeks.. DD1 was posterior and 38 weeks but they took pity on me and induced me..this time they want me to go to 39+2 for a c section and im basically at this point like "F that"...

ETA. Nowhere else I can actually post this without feeling judged. I am only 30 weeks but I'm so done with all of this. I am glad I consented to cut my tubes, I HATE the last 2 months. I am feeling really bitchy and really mean and no way to vent. I am not sleeping, my heartburn is currently untouchable by anything over the counter and my primary care doc and my OB doc will not prescribe me anything. I am throwing up again, tons of stomach acid...i can't bend over to pick up my messy kids room and they won't do it themselves and I'm sick of telling them over and over to go back upstairs and fix it..so I gave up. I had just got the house looking clean and nice when I caught the absolute worst sinus infection and everything is crap again. I'm hot flashing, and I'm starving and I am angry. I don't even know the root cause of anger other than I do not want to do this crap for 9 more weeks. i have a god awful pain in my lower back so severe that idk if it's any on a nerve or if I pulled a muscle or if o have a kidney stone. As much as this rant annoyed some of you trust me yoy cannot find me more annoying than I currently find myself.. it's impossible. I am just really angry in general I guess..

I think if your feeling movement at the sides, bubs is most likely transverse, plenty of time to go head down though, mine has only just gone head down at 36 weeks, not engaged yet and posterior.

My last one was anterior head down and I had lots of kicks in one side. This one is still shuffling around lots and I think has gone posterior from anterior (head down) as I'm getting more movement around the front. Check out baby spinning as they give indications of position from movements felt.

Any bump pics?

This is mine today at 32+3Attachment 34751

4th April didn't sway , prayed for a girl having a GIRL!! God is awesome!!


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[QUOTE=lindz;880107]My husband started building the crib, excited to start getting the nursery decorated. Only 7 weeks or so to go. They were worried about my blood pressure, so they gave me an ultrasound to be on the safe side. Everything looked great and he was weighting about 3 pounds. I was hoping there miraculously wouldn't be a penis but no such luck, it was clear as day. He did look cute though like his brother. Still feeling crazy amounts of jealousy every time I see a baby girl or someone announces they're expecting a girl. Wish I knew how to make those feelings go away, and just be happy with what I have.


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I know those feelings, I have had 4 boys and this is my miracle baby girl !! Don't worry ! Fingers crossed hopefully the next one would a pink[emoji120][emoji120]


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My last one was anterior head down and I had lots of kicks in one side. This one is still shuffling around lots and I think has gone posterior from anterior (head down) as I'm getting more movement around the front. Check out baby spinning as they give indications of position from movements felt.

Any bump pics?

This is mine today at 32+3Attachment 34751

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Cute belly, here's a shot of mine :) I'm having heaps of movement still mostly on my right side buns has been head down most of my pregnancy accept the last two weeks she has been moving side on a lot so alot of back pains and ribs. I have to travel on a train this evening for 13 hours with] my two other little ones soooooo not looking forward to it lols[ATTACH=CONFIG]34770[/ATTACHAttachment 34771