8 dpo today and still no af (yet)
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8 dpo today and still no af (yet)
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Fx for you!!! X
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I've already got the urge to test ha ha
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Of course you do lol! I bought IC tests from eBay, nice and cheap and meant I could indulge my Poas obsession as early as I liked, and get line eye, makes it so much fun! GL xxQuote:
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Ooo yes buy internet cheapies! I love them ! Love a very cheap addiction!....well it starts of cheap....lol! Abc if this isn't your month then I hope it's your lp lengthening out!
Ah men don't get it at all! I honestly think they don't know how to bring up the subject with us in case we demand that they give us a newborn baby right this instant! Cavemen through and through lol!
Ooo yes buy internet cheapies! I love them ! Love a very cheap addiction!....well it starts of cheap....lol! Abc if this isn't your month then I hope it's your lp lengthening out!
Ah men don't get it at all! I honestly think they don't know how to bring up the subject with us in case we demand that they give us a newborn baby right this instant! Cavemen through and through lol!
Lmao. Can just imagine "give me a baby, now!" And he produces one from behind his back or something.
Did you know that things like crocodiles and geckos and such, if their eggs are kept at different temperatures it produces different genders. How awesome would that be? Turn the heating up love, I'm trying to grow a girl.
9dpi, no af. Caved and tested. Bfn. Back to school today for the biggest 2 so best get moving now lol
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Got some spotting now. Think af is finally on her way. If I don't fully come on till tomorrow do I count that as day 1? For the purpose of measuring my lp. I so wanted to make it to tomorrow so I could leave the stress of it behind.
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Looks like after almost 9 hours of spotting here and there af has finally started
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:( x
If she'd held off just 2 more hours it would have been today and I'd have been able to say I'd made it to 10 dpo. So close though. I guess increase is a good sign.
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What's going on with af, I get a little longer lp, and usually as my lp increases my af gets heavier. This time it's really light. It's cd4, but cd1 was mostly spotting. Cd2 was light. Cd3 was mostly spotting and cd4 is almost gone, occasionally spotting.
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Sorry you got AF! Wonder why it's so light? Sometimes I get that though Exocet it to be heavy and it seems to be so light I wonder if I'd imagined it!
Lol about turning the heating god how cool would that be! Lol
I don't know if maybe it's because the hormones are trying to level out so I can get a full 2ww, and it wants to start but is also trying to hold off. Who knows. I guess I shouldn't moan really. Better light than heavy, doesn't feel as yuck lol
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I'm having a hard time again. They seem to be getting more frequent. I have a history of depression and I think I can feel it creeping in again. Just nothing seems to be right, and the fact I don't have a girl, and can't see it ever happening just makes it all SO much worse. I was asked today if I'd have any more babies, I usually give the answer of "I don't know yet, but I'm not ruling it out" or along those lines. So I said that. She said "hmm do you still want a girl?" STILL? Where has the still come from? I never told you I wanted a girl and I don't know you well enough to even think about confiding those feelings.
People are morons, sorry but they are they think they know what we think, feel and want! Even though we do want girls (or boys) we don't necessarily go round telling everyone but everyone thinks that we must want the opposite to what we have. I would say ignore her but I know that's easier said than done! ((((Hugs))))
She just looked at me like 'yeah whatever' and changed the subject.
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Bloody dh one minute I think he is going to pull the plug on ttc all together because he doesn't even mention another child at all in the future. Now he won't stop talking about a girl. "Look at this bed, this is good if you had a girl" "look at all that girl stuff...imagine having a girl and having to do girl things" I'd rather not think about it any more. I still want it, but I know that's not what will happen for us so I would rather just think about the boy we will have and be ok with that, than let myself imagine what it would be like with a girl and have it be twice as hard to accept when I don't get her.
I know everyone will say there's always a chance and you never know. But I don't even want to hope right now.
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I felt exactly the same hon. Me and dh were convinced of a boy this time. I had 1% hope for a girl and even then i wouldn't give it more than a minute of head space. Hugs x
I know it's possible to get a girl after 4 boys, I just don't believe it can happen to me. And if I just accept that it will be easier in the long run.
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MOB I can only begin to imagine how you feel like it will never happen for you because you've already got four boys and just thinking about having a girl will jinx your next pregnancy before it has even begun. Just want you to know you are not the only one that feels this way. Every day I analyse and think I'm not worthy of having a daughter. That just the mere option entering my mind means it won't come to fruition. All I can say is I'm so glad we have got each other through this journey and we are open and honest enough to admit we are willing to try and sway the odds to get our desired gender.
Just keep your chin up and think positive! Next DC whether boy or girl will be just as loved and cherished as your boys xxx
Thanks, I do analyse everything. If I was better at this, or better at that, maybe I'd have been given a girl. Did I do something wrong? Is there some higher being (God or whatever you believe in) that can see that I'd be a really bad girl mum and that's why I haven't got one.
I know it's silly and that isn't how it works but that's certainly how it feels.
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Hi just checking in. Sorry you are feeling so low mob. I feel the same too, about maybe not being 'right' for a boy mum. I have been having 24hr nausea, which gets worse as the day goes on. I have actually been heaving while in the shower!!
Got an early scan booked for Tues and am a bit scared tbh after last time.
Hope you feel better soon x
Aww good to hear from you. Good luck for your scan. Feeling more positive again at the moment.
How did your scan go BBB?
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Oh and I stupidly thought wouldn't it be a great idea to forget about all the charting stuff for a month and just relax. I did very well, I only checked cp a couple of times and was aware of bloating and O pains. Now I could be anywhere between 4 and 7 dpo and going crazy not knowing how long I've got till af or testing lol
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Hi mob
I saw a little heartbeat!!!! Had to shed a tear of pure relief!
Still feeling really sick and have been in bed at 9 pm each night so haven't been on here much. I have never known it take so much effort to even have a shower let alone go shopping..
Maybe it's better you dont know when to test?? I know you wanted to check your lp was getting longer but sometimes we can go into every little detail too much. My lp was always 10 days, think I got to 11 before a couple of times.
So happy for you. That's fantastic news.
I'm sure I'll get 10 days this month, I'm a crazy early tester so it's probably best I don't know. I'm trying to go by the latest possible O date, then if I get to 9/10dpo from that date I will test.
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Good luck!!!! :)
Hi ladies. Congrats bbb. Mob, hoping this is your month! Xx
Apparently I have no tests left, I thought I had a few and went to count how many to see of I would most likely need more but they were opks now hpt. So I couldn't test even if I wanted to. By the time any more arrive I'd be due on from my latest possible date.
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Any signs or symptoms yet Hun?
Ah baby welcome back I'm so so pleased everything ok!!
My tests arrived yesterday. Bfn. I had 1 tiny bit of spotting on Tuesday evening. 1 tiny bit yesterday afternoon. And that's it. By the latest possible O date I am 10 dpo!! Finally!
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Still nothing. Although some slight cramps now. I'm shopping with a friend tomorrow so I expect she's waiting to show up while I'm out or something just to be inconvenient.
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Oh pants! Did she show in the end?
Sorry forgot to update. Yes she did. Friday morning just in time for shopping and no more spotting just full on. But I would have been 11dpo so I'm happy with that. I get a night out with friends on the 17th, without excuses for not drinking and should be just before O so I don't have to worry about what if I'm pregnant. And I actually have a chance at getting pregnant this month. I'm going to give it one month of charting I think once af has gone, just to confirm the lp length.
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Really hope it will be your month next time x
Thanks.
How are you ladies all getting on?
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Fantastic so pleased your lp has finally lengthened. I so hope next month is your month!
Enjoy your night out get on it big time lol itll take the strsss out of trying and you may just conceive that night! Lol!